Friday, May 18, 2007

Pot Luck Friday...Part VIII

Dis shole duz look good!



This forum is officially a smash hit. I am excited to present once again POT LUCK FRIDAY.

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right. An open forum or a wish list if you will. For example, the "Stop Snitching" theory being taught to our kids or how current employers use sites like myspace as a screening tool to weed out potential employees.

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate.

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of every single question, we take the comment that is posted right before you, answer their comment question, then post your own question for the next person. We can discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

So without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 8?

210 comments:

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KIKI said...

OK...I'll start it off...easy one...

What's your dream job/occupation?

Got a meeting...I'll be back

Nic said...

Well I'll be damned. I actually got to the Pot-luck on time :) What to talk about......hmmmm.

Well I've been wondering about this lately. Why are some men scared to get married?

I'll be back with some more questions later. I'm just happy to have been first.

Peace

Nic said...

My bad 2nd ;)

dr. Girlfriend said...

Good Morning Family!!! Its been awhile...work, life, etc. Good to be here;God is good all the time
Dream job: Surgeon General

Its my Birthday today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nic said...

@ kiki,
My dream job would be something in either Interior design, L & I, or Law inforcement. I luv order.

I still have the above question

dc_speaks said...

Hey, ya'll welcome to the party...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DR. GIRLFRIEND!!!!

@KI: My dream is to not have a job at all...residual income is my thing...network marketing, MLM's, etc...

hey nic: glad you got here on time(which is technically anytime...but to answer your question: men are not scared to get married....we just get married in our own time. I have been thinking about blogging on a topic that i have had problems with in the past...DTR(defining the relationship, for both parties....excellent question.

Dr. G.: you go girl...become the first black female Surgeon general and I will throw you a party myslef..im pulling for ya.

my question: Would you hire a friend of yours if you were the boss and you knew they didn't have good work ethics becuase you knew they needed a job real bad?

Lo said...

Happy Birthday, Dr. Girlfriend!!!

@kiki: dream job...own my own restaurant (which I plan to someday just for fun, as I love to cook). I love the creative thrill and sense of satisfaction that comes from making a meal that others can savor and enjoy. Guess it's the southern girl in me.

@nic: the men who are scared to get married are scared of more than just marriage. they want the easy out and marriage, more than often, makes that option a little too difficult. marriage means being "responsible," and a lot of men (and women) just aren't ready to take that on.

Question: If a man or a woman has been married more than twice, at what point is it considered too many marriages and that person is too high of a risk?

Shai said...

Happy Birthday Dr. Girlfriend.

Dream job/occupation: Known and well paid author/poet.

Honestly, I don't have career dreams right now.

Did the feminist movement hinder or help women?

Lo said...

Oops! Didn't see Damon's question. How'd that happen?

Not good to hire friends as your direct reports when you know upfront they're going to cause you some problems. Chaos, and a falling out of some sort, typically ensues...

Shai said...

DC: We have already had a first black woman and man SG. LOL. Remember M. Joycelyn Elders with her controversial masturbation beliefs for safe sex.

Lo: After 2 marriages, I think unless it was due to death that a person may not need to get married until the find out why they cannot stay married. Not saying a third or fourth marriage cannot be successful, it would take alot of soul searching to do that and how many people are really doing that these days.


Do you want to be in love?

dc_speaks said...

@shai: thank you...I forgot about her. I appreciate the correction.

unanswered question by Shai:Did the feminist movement hinder or help women?

Helped them in terms of career development, but hindered them at home with the men that were too weak to allow for his significant other to get the better job, promotion, or make more money.

The other controversial thing about that is the censorship that came along with it. Some of the issues still need to be addressed. Great question, Shai.

Shai's other question still remains in play unanswered:Do you want to be in love?

mark said...

" Not good to hire friends as your direct reports when you know upfront they're going to cause you some problems. Chaos, and a falling out of some sort, typically ensues... "

mark bey: I holds with what Lo said about hiring folks you already know will not work hard, it dosent make a difference if its your close relatives or friends you shouldnt hire folks you know wont be about team and work hard. Working together and sacrifice is the only way a multiperson operation can work.

" Lo: After 2 marriages, I think unless it was due to death that a person may not need to get married until the find out why they cannot stay married."

mark bey: This should also apply to women and men who have kids before the age of the age of 20 who arent ready. Also if the black community would embrace getting counseling and talking to resolve our problems and getting to a higher truth life will instantly get better.

mark said...

"Helped them in terms of career development, but hindered them at home with the men that were too weak to allow for his significant other to get the better job, promotion, or make more money."

mark bey: I holds with this statement by Dc 100%. Dc dont you think this was facillated by the sexism that has always existed in the world and america.

dr. Girlfriend said...

Thanks for the love family!!!

Great comments!!
Good looking out Shai. Absolute respect to my predecessors within the field of medicine that have paved the way to serve in the post of Surgeon General-I have met both Dr Satcher and Dr Elders and view them as mentors. I actually want to create a new division within that sector which will focus specifically on issues in oncology in which I would like to be the first. DC had inside information on that one :)

No one has answered Shai's question-do you want to be in love? hmmmmmm.. lol Hands down affirmative-Yes

My question: Will American Democrats vote along racial lines or for the best candidate?

dc_speaks said...

@Mark: Hell yeah!

@Dr. Girlfriend: I am both honored to have the inside track on your efforts and proud to know such an extraordinarily individual as you.

RE your question: Will American Democrats vote along racial lines or for the best candidate?

If you mean Black American Democrats, the answer is probably unfortunately yes to voting along racial lines. We as a culture get so caught up on getting caught up in the race game that we don't always weigh the facts and how we'll be impacted in the long run.

Question: With gas prices up so high, would you rather fly or drive if it's within a ten-hour drive time?

Shai said...

DC: I hate riding on the road. I get carsick. LOL. Last year, I did a roadtrip with a friend and it took 10 hours. I was toast by the time we got back home. This year our trip will be in the ATL and I am flying. LOL.

What is your fav hobby?

nikki said...

there are too many questions. i feel overwhelmed!

dream gig: author/run a non-profit that actually DOES something.

why r some men afraid to get married: what human being wouldn't be deathly afraid of it when 50% of marriages end in divorce?

would i hire the trife friend: nope. that's just inviting drama to the one spot i don't need it.

how many marriages is considered too many: once he's divorced twice, he can keep away from me.

did the feminist movement help or hinder women: helped in gaining more rights for WHITE women. black women are clumped in with black men so first there's that whole 'civil rights' crap to deal with.

do i want to be in love: HELL yeah.

will americans democrats vote along racial lines or for the best candidate: the truth is self-evident. LOL

high gas prices...drive or fly within ten hours: i'd fly

fav hobby: writing

my question...when did you have your most recent epiphany and what was it?

Khoney330 said...

Happy BDay Dr G! Hope you have an awesome day!
@My dream job would be a singer/performer.
@Lo I'm like the prison system, 3 strikes.
@Shai I feel the feminist movement both helped and hindered women. We have a ton more rights, but it seems we no longer have the right to be just women.

nikki said...

khoney, i totally agree with you. i think one place where the feminist movement definitely shortchanged women is by making it seem as though some things we do are wrong. for example, housewives were seen as women who were 'trapped', didn't reach their potential because of a patriarchal society. meanwhile, many of those chicks WANTED to be housewives and there ain't nothing wrong with that.

a woman shouldn't be vilified cuz she makes the choice to stay at the crib and raise the kids. instead, her work in that house should be recognized for how valuable it really is.

Lo said...

@Shai: my favorite hobby is watching movies.

@Nikki: most recent epiphany was three days ago...that sometimes just basking in a soothing breeze at the water's edge and appreciating God's handiwork can put all the stresses of life into the proper perspective.

@Khoney: I'm with you on that. I always wonder how the guy who's been married three times manages to gets fourth wife (unless he's very well-off).

Question: Is panic a useful emotion that can spur one to action or does it only generate more panic and stymie clear thought?

KIKI said...

Dang...ya'll been busy up in he'r...I'll pick up wit Lo's queston...

@LO...I think it depends on the situation...If a life & death situation, panick may lead to spontaneous behavior for survivol...ie man who lifts a car off of person who's been struck due to adrenaline rush...general panick leads to only more panick...

Question...Are the Cavs gonna get their shyt together & bring it on home tonight?

nikki said...

lo: i think it depends on the person really. if a person isn't aware of his or her ability to cope productively, panic is gonna stiffen them into stillness.

if it's a person who recognizes panic is an emotion that can motivate one to action, then hr or she will do something.

then again, even the act of not doing something is doing something. LOL

nikki said...

kiki: not if i can help it! GO NETS!

dc_speaks said...

@kiki: ABSOLUTELY! The Cavs will bring it home tonight!

Family, don't forget to leave a question when you answer a question. Them's the rules. (Now I sound like Mark...LOL)

Question: Colonic or herbal remedies? (For "cleansing" purposes)

nikki said...

dc: herbal. never done the colonic thing.

question: if you had to the same book once a week for the rest of your life, what book would it be?

CortneyGee said...

Damon... just take a shit and stop dumping herbs in your ass to do what nature does .. smile

My question today is do women really hear men when the man tell them who they are or do they hear what they want and see what they want to see ?

JustMeWriting said...

LOL... um, um, um, herbel I guess...LOL.

hum question: dag...I never really have a question, lets see...

Ok, has anyone ever seen the movie 'Sophie's Choice' where the women had to pick which one of her children to hand over to the Nazi's to kill..she had to pick between her older daughter or her youger son? what would have done?

CortneyGee said...

My boom would be the GodFather .. can't help but be dondada..

question for pondering ...
do you think hell is a place that exist after life or do you believe hell is on earth

CortneyGee said...

if i could ... my children and I would have all went out in a blaze of glory ... armed up the Nazis would have had their asses handed to them via me and the boys.

have two questions pending won't add another

nikki said...

gee: 1st question...

i think for the most partwomen see the truth. however, many feel they can change the brotha.

2nd question...

i think hell is wherever you want it to be. if you see it as being here on earth, that's exactly where it is.

nikki said...

oops...question:

does favre need to move to another team?

CortneyGee said...

Bret Favre needs to retire ... with his old ass ...

next question should Mike Vick be moved if found out he is fighting dogs

nikki said...

gee: blank WILL move that dude if it's found he fought dogs. atlanta already got that cat on a short leash (heh).

question: what was the last cd you bought and what did you think about it?

Lo said...

@Nikki: I'd either take "Gone With The Wind" (one of the best written tales ever) or Tom Wolfe's "A Man In Full." Splendid, splendid story that I never tire of. Ever.

@Cort: ROFL!! WTF??? You be on that kryptonite today with them questions, kid. RE one of your questions: I hear EVERYTHING a man says about who he is, even the shyte he doesn't think I'm listening to, but am. 'Nuf said on that.

Can't handle that Sophie's Choice question.

Other question: hell is a state of mind.

Gotta run but leaving a question:

Fried chicken or fried fish?

KIKI said...

@Nic...Ludacris Release Therapy & I love it.

Question...If you were ice cream what topping would you want poured over you...chocolate or hot carmel?

JustMeWriting said...

fried fish
I don't know if this has been asked before, but what super power would you rather have?

KIKI said...

oops...first of all I meant nikki...missed Lo

Fried chicken please

nikki said...

lo: fried fish DEFINITELY
kiki: caramel cuz everybody does chocolate :)
just: i'd want the ability to breathe underwater and talk to the sea animals. why? cuz that's about the only way a black woman is ever gonna work herself onto the superfriends is if she eliminates aquaman...

question: most recent movie you've seen and what did you think of it?

Anonymous said...

I believe women hear men.

I think the real question is "does a man say what he means?"

CortneyGee said...

hilarious Nikki murk Aquaman to join the Justice League .. wow
Me I would like the powers of UltraMan ... mostly cause Im lazy and he can only do super shit for about 7 minutes ...thats enough tme for me to play save the world , then I would want to nap
question why after all the fame and loot is Ice Cube still frowning

Shai said...

Ok, I cannot read all the posts I missed since I went to lunch. LOL.

Nikki: I just bought a used CD, Instant Vintage by Raphael Saadiq.

If you were a flavor what would you be?

Sheletha said...

hey y'all...
you know I am not answering all dem questions...

1. fried chicken
2. hell is real
3. last cd bought...musicsoulchild...LOVEIT!!!
4. last movie...Real Sex on HBO last night...dem some hoes

are you still friends with your first love?

Sheletha said...

ohh and I would use carmel...im chocolate enough...

Shai said...

She: Ask my ex he would say we are still family. LOL. SMH. He is my child's father. Over the years we have had good and bad relations. Because we grew up together and have a bond, we still can have convos.

What is your sign? LOL.

CortneyGee said...

i know that I tell women I ain't shit from the jump .. I show them I aint shit from the getty but i also know they are suckered by their own hopes and dreams that they can change me ... I learned at an early age to use their hopes to my advantage

Khoney330 said...

@kiki Hot Caramel
Not sure who asked the question about hell. I believe what's in the Bible.
@ Nikki I would like to be able to read minds and super hearing would be nice too.
Spiderman 3, I thought it was pretty good. I liked enough to suggest seeing it again.

If you were a stripper in your past and you met a really great guy would you tell him about it?

Khoney330 said...

@Shai Libra

What's your stripper name?

nikki said...

gee: just cuz he rich don't mean he can't suffer from constipation, nor will it increase his penis size.

shai: i'd be the flavor of crown royal. that way i could make myself taste bad so my folk wouldn't keep drinking so much of it.

she: yup. and we're still crushing on each other.

shai: leo

question: how hot/cold is it where you are right now?

Shai said...

cg: Hence you get put dontdatehimgirl lol.

Khoney: I would tell the guy. Funny I once dealt with a man who used to strip. Whew!

My stripper name would be Shai(shay)-licious. LOL.

If stripping was your only means to earn money would you do it?

nikki said...

honey: yeah, cuz if he's really great, he'll know what's up.

question: would you date a stripper?

Shai said...

I am a Leo. Lions rules! LOL.

I would be a special mocha blend addictive like Starbucks.


It is 60 here and a lil chill in the air.

Have you ever stripped for your mate?

nikki said...

shai: question one, i'd strip but i'd make sure it's in one of those "pay and don't touch" joints.

shai's question two: i have stripped for my mate before. after he laughed at my pathetic attempt to 'make dat ass clap' we got down to biz.

question: if you were a stripper, what celebrity would you offer a lapdance to?

Sheletha said...

my stripper name would be: Vanessa Simone...that has always been a stripper name to me...


i thought (secret confession) about being stripper, i don't have the body for it now..

I would tell ole dude, more than likely he met me at a strip club

did you all think that girl sitting next to lo in that pic looked like me??? I thought so. Just wondered if I was the only one.

Shai said...

Nikki: Dang too bad LL and Boris are married. LOL. I would strip for Idris Elba.


Do you feel comfortable staring at yourself naked in a mirror?

Sheletha said...

@ Nikki

Alonzo Mourning.

Sheletha said...

@ shai

I play with my belly

JustMeWriting said...

shai: not realy, but I did throw some heals on last night...LOL.

would you rather be blind of deaf? I know you'll loving my questions...but hahaha

Shai said...

she: I wanted to say how did Sheletha get to Cleveland and get back to see Lance in NC. I was not goin to say. LOL.


Where is Rich? Where is Cap?

Shai said...

JMW: I would be deaf. Reading and writing is my fav hobby.

Which is better a good fuck or long love making?

Sheletha said...

start of with a good fuck (against the wall even) then end up with a slow long stoke love making session...


damn, i think i said too much

Sheletha said...

ladies...if your man cried all the time, would that make you uncomforatable?

Shai said...

Do you know May is Masturbation Month?

Check out my boy Bygbaby's post.
http://www.mindspill.bygbaby.com/2007/05/love-to-love-yourself.htm

CortneyGee said...

SMH @Shai I got put on don't date him girl .com and on constant blog blast because some women can't face the fact that they were just a piece to a puzzle and not the entire book. I don't cry over spilled milk nor do I bitch and complain about broads that have screwed over me .. I take it I learn the lesson dropped and I keep moving ... question is why do the people on this blog hold each others hands when you havent met the others and know not how dumb foul and stupid they might be with their hips up in air and face in a pillow

Shai said...

CG: Not everyone is alike just because you handle things differently does not make you better. SMH. Makes me think of Kikis recent post about her brother. LOL.

Shai said...

CG: That is just foul why you bitching about others bitching. LOL.


Is venting a good thing?

KIKI said...

@Nikki...Perfect Strangers with Bruce Willis & Halle Berry...found it enjoyable

@anon...Hale naw...no matter how REAL they claim to keep it...especially when it comes to gettin some azz

@Shai...question 1...chocolate all day long...question 2 Scorpio...question 3 yup, but at a respectable gentlemens club, not some raunchy hole in da wall...question 4...love lookin at myself naked (now that I'm 20 lbs lighter hehehe)...question 5 depends on the man, special friend I get together wit e're now & then, a good fuckin...a man I care about, love makin

@Sheletha...yeah we're still friends

@Khoney...yeah I'd tell him, not too much I'm ashamed about...stripper name would be KANDI...cause it taste so sweet LOL

@Nikki...not too hot not too cold...date a stripper...been there done that...and I'd shake my ass off for Ice Cube (maybe get that frown off his face LOL)

@JMW...deaf...so I couldn't hear all the bullshit

Question...Lobster or Steak

mark said...

" but what super power would you rather have?"

mark bey: The ability to make women any women on the planet give me all of her money.


On the note of having super power. What if the specific power that you had was you could do or say anything you wanted and then take it back by clapping your hands. What would you do.

Khoney330 said...

Too many to go back on, I'll start with the last question.

Venting is a good thing it helps you get crap off your chest, that should make you feel better.

CG I don't get your question

mark said...

" just: i'd want the ability to breathe underwater and talk to the sea animals. why? cuz that's about the only way a black woman is ever gonna work herself onto the superfriends is if she eliminates aquaman..."

mark bey: LOL. Cat women dosent count? Speaking of the wonderfriends I think the male wonder twin was the softest super hero ever.

Khoney330 said...

Mark, some folks most certainly would get the cussing out, they deserve. That would feel so good. Yell it and let it go. wooo saaah

LOL

KIKI said...

@Shai...Think you already know how I'm gonna answer...vent away...it's good for the soul...

Question...What blog is this bashing on CG keeps referring to so I can go read it? LMAO!

JustMeWriting said...

venting's good...um, on the sex question...I'm with sheletha but ONLY if I love you...otherwise you'd betta take that love making crap someplace else. (OPS..ME SAID TO MUCH TOO)LOL

She: if my man cried too much it wouldn't make me nothing, because I'd be OUT... da punk. LOL

um... warm sunny days or cold winter nights?

Shai said...

Kiki: It is www.dontdatehimgirl.com

Would you take advice from a potential mate's ex?

CortneyGee said...

Shai i wasn't bitching about bitches bitching I only posed the question why do bitches bitch ? It's funny how KiKi's post reminds you so much of me ... could it be I'm Mr Mufucka and I've dumped on and in her.

Maybe she has been using the blog as a forum to gain attention and have a fucking pity party with a bunch of strangers ? Or maybe KiKi is a talented fiction writer and using all of you to work on her character development. I'll never tell...

The Truth is Out There!!!

question:
which truth do you beleive ?

Khoney330 said...

Take advice, depends on their relationship and how it ended. Some things I would listen to others, I would need to knock my own head on.

Warm summer nights. Not hot summer nights.

Shai said...

CG: People share stories just like you. SMH. LOL. Men play chicks and then hate hearing others stories. You shared how you played what is wrong with hearing the other side. If ya don't like reading the stories close your eyes or switch the blog channel. LOL.

Was CG bitching or not about bitches bitching? LOL.

Shai said...

Khoney: Warm summer. I am a summer babe who likes laid back summers.


Day or nite person?

Lo said...

@Shai: I've known Cort a long time. Know him like we were raised from birth in the same house. He's not bitching. He's just doing him. Never hides who he is. Just comes straight at you, as is. I think he invented the term "As is." It's just whether people are paying attention or not when he shows up that way.

He's a brown paper bag kinda cat...take him or leave him.

dc_speaks said...

oh my God...what the hell is going on in here?

hold on....let me catch up..

Shai said...

Lo: Still sounds like he is complaining. Just my observation. He seems way too into the bitching. LOL.

KIKI said...

Hold the fuck up...first of all I aint put nobody's name out there, so if you feel my shit is about you, that's your conscence talkin...appreciate you keeping me out of your analogies...and truth is you aint never DUMPED a damn thing on or in me...

@Sahi...yeah he was bitchin eventhough he'll probably never admit to it...

Question...Why are some people so self absorbed that they think everything is about them?

Lo said...

Oops, I forgot to leave a question.


Nooners or middle-of-the-night?

JustMeWriting said...

I'M OUTTA HERE...DC, YOU'RE SPOT HAS BECOME TROUBLE...LOL. Dag, can't we all just get along?!?!?!

dc_speaks said...

I know this is corny...but since Ima basketball fan and TNT is featuring the Eastern COnference finals...

Let the truth be told!!

Question: Um...this is interesting...anyone got a bowl of popcorn?

dc_speaks said...

--cough, cough==...hello..anybody there?

JustMeWriting said...

Lo: I'm a middle of the nighter...If I'm awake...
cake or pie

dc_speaks said...

whew...ok, simmer down folks.

dc_speaks said...

@JMW; I don't know....what is peach cobbler considered?

Shai said...

DC: The Pistons gonna spank some azz. LOL.

Lo: I have to say both cause a sista ain't done either in a while. LOL.

Do yall think Lance and She only ate and hung out? LOL.

CortneyGee said...

I bet you think this song is about you ... don't you ? don't you ? don't you? KiKi I wasn't saying that I did dump in or on you ..just raised the question what if I was Mr Mufucka ..? As far as me bitching ... I don't complain about the endless amount of women that do drive bys or unannounced visits because I blew their back out . I was just saying ...

dc_speaks said...

hahahahaha...@SHai: i think they only hung out.

question: pets---dog or cat?

CortneyGee said...

I believe Lance ate and for Sheletha's sake he was hung you know she likes weight on it hahahaha

Khoney330 said...

Actually I prefer sex upon waking.

dc_speaks said...

question: love making or make up/break up f**K?

Khoney330 said...

Love making.

Shai said...

Cort: So everyone should act like you? LOL.

Shai said...

Why do men think they are superior with coping skills just cause they dont bitch?

Lo said...

@Justmewriting: Cake. Definitely cake.

@Khoney: Ditto on that. But then, I nap a lot during the day so that could be problematic.

@Shai: Lance visiting Sheletha was probably something big and epic, like Nixon's visit to China. They'll never tell us what really happened.

KIKI said...

"Maybe she has been using the blog as a forum to gain attention and have a fucking pity party with a bunch of strangers ? Or maybe KiKi is a talented fiction writer and using all of you to work on her character development. I'll never tell..." You just sayin...sayin a whole lot of bullshit! Not into pity parties & don't need to use anybody to work on anything...I already know I'm talented in ALL that I do(SMH)...and all I know is that THIS song is about me cause you put my name in it...need to take it off the play list & quick!

Question...Why do men think it's alright to let women pay their bills instead of getting a real job?

dc_speaks said...

100...yayyyyy

Jam Eazy said...

Kiki---cuz there are women that are stupid enough to do it.

O---and what they do is a real job. It's called PIMPIN.

Yo DC, just stumbled on this spot. IT'S BOSS UP IN HERE. DAYUM.

Lovemaking vz breakup fuck---what the hell is lovemaking?

Shai said...

Lo: Now that is funny. LOL.

Do you think the our blogger fam will ever meet up?

dc_speaks said...

um...
Shai's ?:Why do men think they are superior with coping skills just cause they dont bitch?

huh...what u talking about? men bitch too. We are just different in how we express our anger/hurt.

you couldn't be more wrong than thinking that.

Question: neighborhood motel or Ritz Carlton? for just sex...

mark said...

Congratulations DC. 100 comments in a few hours that is impressive. When I grow up I wanna be just like you.

mark said...

" O---and what they do is a real job. It's called PIMPIN."

mark bey: Aint it aint easy either.LOL.Just joking I dont advocate anyone taking advantage of anybody else no matter what kind of relationship it is.

Life is deeper than getting over on folks. Just my oppinion.

Shai said...

Dc: I am going by listening to men when they complain about how women complain. LOL. I have had my ex say how I need to cope and the negro doing the same thing. LOL.

Who is the stronger sex?

*going to corna wit popcorn and protective shield*

dc_speaks said...

hahahaha...Mark, thanks.

a couple of weeks back...it hit 227..I was like---OMG!

@shai: No I don't think so. Maybe a few at a time, but I think we will have fallen out as a family before we all kick it on the whole.

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

Wow the spot is hot .. Shai you seem to be the fire starter here... Cortney so keep it real did you hit the skins or what? If you did, was it good and can you play pass the p*ssy with a blogosphere, bruh?

Shai said...

Amen! to Mark. Rare man to admit that. A few negroes in here act like playas. LOL.


Is life taken too seriously?

dc_speaks said...

Men are the stronger sex...WTF...as if you had to ask..

Shai said...

DC: NOT! Remember yall have a missing rib. LOL.

mark said...

"
Question: neighborhood motel or Ritz Carlton? for just sex..."


mark bey: Makes no difference as long as she pays for the hotel and pays me for my efforts as well. Just kidding.

@ dc


If you knew that you were going to live to be very old and you had a choice between garaunteed happiness for the rest of those days or 10 million dollars in cold cash. Which would you choose.

CortneyGee said...

Not that I make it a norm to respond to anyone that would post with a name like yours but Happy I have to plead the fifth about anything I may or may have not done with any female on these sites... though it will be said Im not I am quite the gentle man, but if you like you can ask KiKi and she can tell all... if there is anything to tell...


KiKi mouth open or mouth wide shut ?

mark said...

Questio to all of the brothers

Do you think men would cheat as much we do if what goes around came back around literally.

Meaning for everytime you cheated you understand as that as a law of nature she would cheat twice as hard would this stop brothas from cheating.

dc_speaks said...

@Mark: I'd take the long life and watch folks die, so that I could take their loot. hahahahaha

question: for a new sex relationship---a partner with 2 experiences or 200?

JustMeWriting said...

mark: I AM SURPRISED AT YOU....UM, UM, UM...lol.

Shai: I think women are the stronger sex...HANDS DOWN!!!

I'm glad the fighting is over...and dag, DC...I see you've got some new-be's with funny names... LOL.

HUM..I'd take the happiness...money don't matter.

CortneyGee said...

SMH like I have Tourette's.

@Shai: act like playas? come to Cleveland. I'll show you the difference between 'acting' like a playa and being one.

dc_speaks said...

welcom jam and happily to friday's pot luck.

It's something in here today...boy o' boy

mark said...

"Is life taken too seriously? "

mark bey: Not by black people if we did take life really seriously we wouldnt be on the bottom.

Shai said...

CG: I don't like playas so why should I visit ya. LOL.


Why are players revered? Is taking advantage of someone funny?

KIKI said...

@HHHH...ain't NOBODY & I mean NOBODY play pass the pussy wit my goodies...you done lost yo damn mind...

@Shai...Hell yeah it's taken too seriously!

Question...How do you prefer to travel...car, boat, plane or train?

CortneyGee said...

@Mark... i believe men would still cheat as long as women allow us to..
question : When is a war finally over ? Is it when they wave the white flag or your enemy tucks tail between legs and punks out silently?

mark said...

" mark: I AM SURPRISED AT YOU....UM, UM, UM...lol."


mark bey: JMW I aint endorsing that behavior one bit, Im only asking a question about behavior I have seen all my life.

dc_speaks said...

@KiKi: train is my fave.

JustMeWriting said...

kiki: I'd say car, since I can't swim and I love to watch the scene's along the way.

KIKI said...

Wide fuckin open...any other questions directed at me...you got my number.

Already have a question out there...

Shai said...

To HHH the newbie, STFU about passing the p, like someone would want ya. ROTFLMAO.

CortneyGee said...

i love to fly but when I can run a train Im happy as Micheal jackson at a middle school

Sheletha said...

okay i just got back from a meeting what the fuck???

Khoney330 said...

The war is over when the white flag is waved and everyone comes to the table to see how badly the loser is going to get screwed... hehehe, bend ova! LOL

mark said...

" question : When is a war finally over ? Is it when they wave the white flag or your enemy tucks tail between legs and punks out silently? "

mark bey: Its when they run tail between legs also I agree with you courtney men will cheat as long as women allow it to happen on some level. However I aint trying to insinuate that its ok but that is how it is.

Courtney you still have not answered my question, If a brotha knew that his women would cheat on the same level he did if he were to cheat would that stop brothas from cheating.

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

I'm new to this place so please forgive me if I get little bit familiar---

@Shai---How 'bout you just STFU period? And what's with all the SMHing? You got some kind of palsy? WTF?

@KIKI---I love trains. Do you?

Sheletha said...

how did i become a topic of question???

dc_speaks said...

how did i become a topic of question???


@Sheletha: cause you were gone. hahahahaha

JustMeWriting said...

ALL MAN...things are getting wild in here...
HHHH: you are TOO much for me...DAG...

sheletha: DAG!!

DC: UM, UM, UM....

dc_speaks said...

Question: can you be friends with someone that you wanted to kick it with, but they weren't interested?

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

@JustMeWriting I'm not too much too much but enough to be just enough to amke you write. See that you are in Philly, My question: how can a hung stallion hook up with a literal philly in philly?
PS I love your juicy shiny lips

Khoney330 said...

After some time has passed maybe. Depends on how things were.

KIKI said...

@HHHH...WTF? Hell naw...

Question...why do men think talkin nasty is what turns a woman on?

dc_speaks said...

hey hey hey....brotha...thats my little sister dawg...

hold up on dat, homie!!

dc_speaks said...

kiki: i know a whollllllle lot of women that love to get dogged out and called bitch, hoe, slut, and any other degrading name you can think of and cum realllllll hard upon hearing it..

CortneyGee said...

ihave to finally answer Mark's question .. sorry got lost whilst waging war and laughing out loud. I think that men know that there is a chance that their woman will tip and still dance the dance electric . I know when I was playing the field I did so without fear of what my girl might do.

dc_speaks said...

question: gun fight or knife fight?

Khoney330 said...

I'm sure Kiki means trying to pick up women, not during sex. Some women may like being talked dirty to during sex.

dc_speaks said...

it's violent today...dayum!!!!

choose ur weapon

CortneyGee said...

question: is it cool to date your boy's sister ?

JustMeWriting said...

HHHH: WHAT... you barking up the wrong tree boo-boo. LOL, but I thank you kindly and I can't say I'm not liken the way you puttin it down, but like my big brotha said...pump dem breaks...LOL

DC: yeah...I think that's possible as long as things have been accepted and understood...I've done it plenty of times.

kiki: yeah...it's a real shame,but some women do like hearing that stuff. My ole dude WANTED to say something kinda wild to me, but stopped because he didn't think I'd like it (he knows me so well) but then he said or would chu....LOL. I was like..."I'm game daddy"...LOL but they know who to try and who not to try.

my question: Would you sleep with someone you cared about after they burn (std) you?

CortneyGee said...

bazooka.. why take cahnce you might miss blow them anbd their house up

dc_speaks said...

Fugg yo couch ni99a...you need to quit wit dat shit.

I was not cool with that ni99a all like that.

CortneyGee said...

you used to take showers with that dude bruh ... and now you gut duggering my sis( not Aimee.. had to put that there cause she would sue me and shoot damon)

dc_speaks said...

@jmw: im guilty of falling victim in my youth

mark said...

"question: is it cool to date your boy's sister ?"

mark bey: Absolutely not.

Lo said...

"gut duggering"?

Boy, I done told you bout that word!!

I'm just waking up from a nap. Where's Damon...?

Khoney330 said...

Exhaling keepnig my cool, exhaling keeping my cool. Wooo saaaahhh

Sheletha said...

uzi- you just spray the area.

dc_speaks said...

heyyyy...what's going on?

Sheletha said...

3H tiptoed over the line

dc_speaks said...

lol@sheletha & CORT..GUN FIGHT NOT WEAPONS OF MASS DESTRUCTION OR AUTOMATIC WEAPONS!

dc_speaks said...

HHH seems like he's going to be a habitual linestepper.

WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!

dc_speaks said...

@MARK: "question: is it cool to date your boy's sister ?"

mark bey: Absolutely not.

Why not? Who better to watch over your sister than your boy?

smooth and southern fried said...

2 much to respond too, but this is quite entertaining.

Some of this sh*t is childish as hell. Folk ought to handle their business off the blogs.

dc_speaks said...

question: pets---dog or cat?

or

mac or pc?

or

bologna or ham?

KIKI said...

OK...so nobody's askin questions anymore...since ya'll so hung up on dating yo boys sister...

Question...If yo boy's sister is off limits, why is it ok to fuck over the rest of his family?

KIKI said...

@DC...Dog...PC...Ham

dc_speaks said...

cousin's don't count....hahahahahah

question: sinner or saint?

KIKI said...

@Dc...SINNER!

I have a cousin who would beat the shit out of someone who fucked over me just like if I was his sister which is why I usually keep him uninformed about my bad relationships...so question is...

Why don't cousins count?

CortneyGee said...

cousin's do count but only in west virginia .. hell in west virginia a cousin can be more than a cousin and nobody say shit about it ...
question : KiKi why hasn't this cousin whupped baby daddy # 1 and 2's ass and if he did why didn't you blog about that .. now that would be some good reading

KIKI said...

Cause when I was wit baby's daddy 1 & 2 he was doing 13 years...he's out now though! But the next time he does...I'll be damn sure to write about...wanna make sure I keep you entertained!

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

"I have a cousin who would beat the shit out of someone who fucked over me just like if I was his sister which is why I usually keep him uninformed about my bad relationships"

KIKI---Can cousins keep up with all your 'bad relationships'? Hotdang! How many you got?

And seeing as there's an apparent d^ck deficiency in your life feel like making a trip to Hungsville?

.....or I could come there....

Of course---with your cousin's permission.

Shai said...

HHH: Go lick yourself. You dont know me coming up in her tripping in this new joint. Ish.

KIKI said...

@HHH...4...2 baby daddys & two assholes...rest of my relationships have been great because they knew how to act like MEN & not little boys who have a mommy complex, even in the break up process, making us friends til this day...

As far as the dick deficiancy goes...that's by choice boo, not because it's not being offered...I'm very selective about who gets to taste my goodies...and seeing as how you done had something freaky to say to damn near every female on here...you don't seem to be selective at all!

Question...HHH, are you smokin crack?

Lance said...

"it smells like ba-dussy up in here"
- Bernie Mac

dc_speaks said...

heyyyyyyyyyyyy lance....

hhh...brah...I'm da alpha male...relax.

dc_speaks said...

question: Mint Condition or Boys II Men?

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

Shai did I happen to rub your rubbarb? Please accept my apologies if so , I just don't take kindly to women talking out of turn. That's a time where Ihappily hang my shlong where their words belong feel me?

KiKi I am selective ...I select like a panther does. You seem weak and an easy kill. Even if you are protected by relatives you come off as a lady who takes pleasure in being beat down or maybe you don't enjoy it but keep finding yourself attracting males that have no good intention but to fuck over you, thought it was only right to put my name is the hat dig it?

Answer to DC's question neither Temptations or the Four Tops I'm old school man!!!!!

My question to the female readers have you had a threesome ? If not I'm looking for a third care to join in ?

KIKI said...

@HHH...please don't be fooled...because I try to look for the good in people by no means makes me weak...and the fools that fucked me over are few & far between and I didnt say they got away wit that shit...maybe I should give you & Cort baby daddy #1 number so he can tell you about it...Baby daddy #2 died...and I aint through with the last two...I don't NOBODY to protect me...throw yo hat in the ring if you want to...might wanna re-think that!

And hell naw don't nobody wanna have a fuckin threesome wit yo ass

Shai said...

HHH: Blah, blah, blah. That's all ya sayin.

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

ok your loss .. from reading your blog wouldn't be your first nor your last loss, LOSER!!!
Shai are you still on the blogs boo thought you had took your tired ass home from work or was already at home and tired of me berating you. I'm so glad that I run my own company and can make money while entertaining myself reading these post.

Shai said...

HHH: No one gave your limp dick azz no play now you acting petty. LOL>

HappilyHungHunk, Hungsville, USA said...

Shai I stay rock hard even for two toned skinned skanks like yourself, notice I have been trying to catch KiKi's helpless ass and not you. Not because I don't mind a challenge I just wasn't interested in giivng a charity screw to you. But now that you have run your mouth I would like to grudge fuck the snot ouuta ya!
PotLuck Pussy Predator and HappilyHungHardHunk for the nonbelievers

smooth and southern fried said...

Ladies don't be so simple, HHH, sounds like he has insider info. May even be someone you know who can't afford to really say what they want, that's why he's on the unidentifiable link.

Don't play the game and the feathers won't get ruffled.

How old did you all say you were. I thought this was a site for grown folks.

CortneyGee said...

I agree ... I believe it's Man With balls unballingly hiding behind a new name ... Question wouldn't a man with balls only say this type of shit ?

Man With Balls said...

Oh contrare mon frare - the man with balls don't roll like that.

Shai said...

CG: I was going to point out the HHH is acting like he is undercover. LOL. Coward!

He is desperate cuz if he so well hung he would not be begging for pussy.

Man With Balls said...

See, that settles it. I've never begged for pussy a day in my life. It just cums to me.

KIKI said...

Feathers ruffled?...I'm LOVIN this...dis the type off shit I get off on...and trust me...HHH damn sure dont know me or shit about me...Helpless?...Loser?...I think that's the other way around...you got yo own business & makin all that money...why you on here fishin for pussy...it should be lined up round the corner for ya...I appreciate the offer though...I do love the fact you speak your mind...much respect on that tip...that's the kind of man I can at least respect...on the real though...the disrespect is unneccesary & way outta line

dc_speaks said...

um...wow. A brotha leaves the roost and there's other cock in my house.

What in the world is goin on now?

Ya'll just flinging p*ssy around likes it's common place...

shame shame shame.....

dc_speaks said...

question: Prince or Michael Jackson?

dc_speaks said...

Question: Did everyone wish our own blog commentor Dr. Girlfriend a happy birthday today?

KIKI said...

Oh snap...meant to do it earlier but got caught up...hehehe

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DR. G! and many more...

@DC...Prince all day long...

Question...Is anybody else turned on?...hehehe, snort, hehehe (shit it's friday...need to lighten this ish up)

CortneyGee said...

happy birthday Doc... I owe MWB an apology .. thougth he might have been ballzie enough to say dat shit I was wrong and I stand corrected ...

CortneyGee said...

Prince ... question

when is it time to take off the condom ? After the test or when you see that mate hasn't lost weight always coughing or broke out in blisters?

Shai said...

I agree Kiki. He or she don't know me. LOL.

dc_speaks said...

Always use condoms.

My public service announcement.

Magic Johnson or Michael Jordan?

CortneyGee said...

Magic... the boy transformed the game 6'9 point guard.. I agree with you forget about the std's its kids you might contract

CortneyGee said...

Jordan was the whip though

Mayo or Miracle Whip

KIKI said...

Mircle Whip...

Ya'll still on here? Are ya'll watchin the game? geeeesh

dc_speaks said...

Answer: Miracle whip...Mayo is nasty

I am just checking back...from time to time

Cavs or Pistons?

dc_speaks said...

ooooh I got another one...

Mike Tyson or Muhammad Ali?

Lo said...

Ali, any day. No one had the showmanship that Ali did. That's why he will forever be The G.O.A.T.

Tyson, in his day, could smash some ass, but Ali made prizefighting an art. It was something lovely to behold. Sheer poetry.

Those days are over. Boxing sux now.

Happy 200th Comment!!! Glad it was me who busted your 200th cherry!!!

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