Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Ram-Brotha(Missing in Action-2)

well well well..what do we have here. One of my friends asked me to write on this topic as a partial follow up to an earlier blog. Thank you TWG!

It seems as though she decided to discuss with me the fact that she knows the "game" so well that she confidently told me that everytime a man gets off of the phone, answers another call, goes to hang with the fellas, so on and so forth that he is potentially running game. Man i'm tellin you...she broke it down to a science....had me thinking back like damn...I thought i was kinda smooth backin da day!!!LOL...wrong!!!!

I was shocked to hear that she said I know that guys will talk on the phone all the way to a woman's house and get off long enough to tell the other woman that we are there. Some may even hold a conversation all the way up the elevator and just about to the door....Orrrrrr, reply to a text message while on the phone with another woman...not knowing that they can hear the buttons being pushed on the other end. She even told me that she knows of some guys that map out visits to maximize the stops to hook up with women..a"mapquest for male whores" if you will....I died when she said that one too!! I wasn't going to validate anything at all, I just wanted to listen to get as much as possible from her.


Amazingly and absolutely well articulated the fact that women know far more than they let on. My concern with that is when I hear women constantly complain about a lack of "good brothas"...but they allow for the nonsense to continue by turning a deaf ear to it and acting like it doesn't exist.

Knowing her to be one of the strongest sistahs I've ever met in my life, I know that she wouldn't put up with the shenanigans, but I know lots that will. My thought provoking spin on the matter is this: 1. If dudes find out that the "game" we run has been decoded, will we stop and keep it real or adapt and elevate the level of the game. 2. If women let men know what they are doing, will that allow for them to screen out the undesireables faster since a brotha doesn't want to get fronted out like that.

I know some women that got "game"too!!! One in particular kicked it with 5 dudes at the same time..and not one of them know about the other 4...

It's like a damn chess match! I felt violated because she made me feel like she decoded my super secret decoder ring formula and exposed it all just like it was nothing.

Fellas...let me be the first to tell you if you haven't already heard, the jig is up..keep it real son!!! I know its hard to believe.....but...from the countless female perspectives that I get....WE AIN'T GOT TO LIE TO KICK IT!! If you want to just hit it...say it..the answer might just be yes...thats what I heard

That's my public service announcement!!!!! LOL!

24 comments:

Sheletha said...

That bitch game is going to get hurt I swear...

I got more to say I just gotta collect my thoughts...

Ill be back

dc_speaks said...

oh boy!! ok sheletha...ill be waiting..i actually was going to put ur name in the blog cause I knew u had something to say about it...how funny

Girly_Girl said...

Game recognizes game.

Game will never die...no matter who knows about it.

Game is its own excuse for being.

dc_speaks said...

lol..i dont have any game...im just an average guy....

Anonymous said...

I'm flattered that you used my suggestion as a blog topic. That was very well written (as always). Maybe that will put brothers at ease with the games.

Remember: "Treat people the way THEY want to be treated".

Note: you are one of my favorite people, DC. Keep sharing/caring!

-TWG

Rich in the stl said...

Man, you will not believe the play I got by just being honest.

Sisters dig the hell out of that.

You lose some, but you get a lot more that way, and then they don't hate you when time is up.

The bad part is when you let them know you just want to kick it like that, you run the risk of losing a good woman to the brother that comes along and decides to make her his franchise player, because you won't be the only dude in her life either.

KIKI said...

Dang dc! I finally check out your site and this is what I walk into? WTF! Yes, it's true. We've known about the game men try to run for quite some time. But I wonder why? Could it be because most men aren't very original (present company excluded???lol) and all seem to be playing from the same game book. After having the same game run on you a few times, hell, it's no wonder why we know your next move before you make it.

And while yes its true, some women run game, too, here's the difference...we're creative with our sh*t.hehehe

Good post!

Oh yeah...that part about being up front about what you want is absolutely true! At the risk of sounding just a weeee bit promiscuos, I must say that the man who makes no secret of the fact he's interested sexually, stands a better chance than the one telling that bold face lie that they dont expect anything. At least I know what I'm getting into with the one who TELLS me he's trying to "get his freak on".

Ok I'm done

Mizrepresent said...

"Game recognizes game......so true!" So what u wanna do?" Thats it! Spell it out! Then we can both respect in the morning....u hear me! holla if you hear me (lol)

dc_speaks said...

wow...that was fast..I am thankful for the comments and certainly appreciate the support on my writing.

ok..Ki Ki..thanks for finally checking it out nukka. C'mon and kick it anytime..besides if u go back you got alot to catch up on. I've been a busy lil bee since jan 31st..get readin homegirl...LOL

TWG..you are more than deserving of the accolades! I think you should hurry up and get started sharing some of your wisdom with this community of writers/readers. you have great things in that head of yours.

Rich..trust me brah...I know they dig the honesty move...like colt 45..everytime here's why: im not advocating just saying. "let me f**k you"...just like that..but rather "the look if it feels like it might end up like that...are you game, cause we two grown a$$ people" that way, its out there and can be addressed cat quick. LOL..I remember a woman telling me there was a 3 month rule for sex..i was about 30 and pretty much said f**k you, im out! literally...but she respected me for my honesty and well.....nevermind

And the dude that comes along and says that he wants to make her the franchise player may or may not be running game anyway. straight up!


Im really surprised at you mizrepresent..I didnt think you would have a comment like that on here, but I welcome the comment and the support...I just knew to expect some flack from you and especially Sheletha on this topic..keep reading over the next few days...Im about to drop bombs!

Sheletha said...

Sorry I went to sleep. But Im back now.
Game is tired.

I got nothing.

dc_speaks said...

lol..thats funny!

Mizrepresent said...

Surprised Why? I am a woman of the new millenium. It's about choice, no game...too old for game, and the only gaming i do is at Casinos...you stay inspired, i'm enjoying this.

dc_speaks said...

hold up for a sec..kiki said that women are more creative....man that is a blog topic for this week...thanks kiki!

yeah im surprised miz..i didnt think you had the mindset like that, because of some of your blogs relating to love and soul mates. my bad...oh and what do u know about white women butts in ohio anyway?...LOL

Rich in the Stl said...

Whenever, I meet some of y'all ladies (we are planning a Lo Zone party, more on that another day) I just need to make sure wifey is on the arm, because I can already tell, fireworks would be on the menu.

dc_speaks said...

lol..rich are you making advertisement comments on my blogs to a party that I wasn't invited to?

shame shame shame!

Rich in the Stl said...

Dude, you are definitely invited. Love you like a play brother. Can't wait to meet you.

This whole community thing is growing anyway. We were supposed to get down in Miami this summer but the plan got twisted. The event it was based on got moved to LA in October. We'll see what gives.

Just trying to create an opportunity to meet some of the cool people we hang with everyday online. Lance has been pushing this party (originally for Lo Zoners) since I got into blogging a year ago, probably longer. So actually, it's his baby. I just like to promote.

dc_speaks said...

ok..we good then..thanks for the invite...dawg..um..."love me like a play brother"...that real talk, son! Ditto for me..i'll send you my number and we can compare some stories later..I know we both got some good ones!..LOL

dr.Girlfriend said...

Very interesting indeed...re:the game.. Are some questions never asked by men and women because neither party wants to know the truth, afraid to hear the truth, or content with his or her perception of reality? Or perhaps that is the wrong question. Perhaps a better question is: Are men and women more similar than we think, (neither from mars or venus)and like minded persons often resonate with other like minded persons?

dc_speaks said...

um...no i dont think we think alike at all...but i welcome the comment dr girlfriend...it is indeed thought provoking, but you know from some of our conversations, dudes think way different from women.

dr. Girlfriend said...

The question was: Are men and women more similar than we think or believe? Do we share similar philosophies about life? I think it is pretty clear we (men and women) do not "think" the same, rather is there some common ground between men and women as it relates to life, the game, etc...lol..too funny D. I feel ya though.

dc_speaks said...

now that i understand ur query...i suppose on some level we share some philosophies..we are still after all..human!

CortneyGee said...

Truth is the last evil left in the world

I dont play games I play hoes ( a statement that my Uncle A Pimp named Snag dropped on me years ago when I asjked to to come play atari with me )

I tell the truth for two reasons you can't say I didnt tell you

2.) most women are so unused to hearing it they are defenseless against it ... ooh Cortney the game is to be sold not told !!!!

dc_speaks said...

lol...um another Geeism..hahahahahaha

u never let me down black man...u know I appreciate ur visit to my spot!

KIKI said...

Youre welcome for the idea D. And, believe it or not, there are some women who think more like a man than you think...I'm one of them but you'll find that out as we go along.

Cort, you said theres two reasons you tell the truth...only one is listed. Just curious...and I may regret this...but whats the second?