Cheating..Part I

I recently happened across an epsiode of Cheaters and almost passed out from laughing so much. I was on the youtube search late last night, but I couldn't find it. It was the most hilarious thing I had ever seen.

A woman---yes I said it, was guilty of cheating on her husband to be with not 1 but 2 women. She was having a threesome with two other women dressed in construction worker clothes while she was tied up. Some super freaky sh*t to say the least.

The dude she was with hardly understood the world of bondage and was more than slightly repulsed. Unfortunately I was drawn to it like a moth to a flame. I couldn't turn away because it was that interesting.

Now I know why I couldnt turn towards the light(away from the b.s.) and why episodes like that are so well populated with ratings. It is simply because we enjoy the idea of someone getting caught. WHY? Why would our society support a show that highlights the exploits of affairs and infidelities? I'll tell you why becasue it sells! Just like website that alledgely exposes men that women arent supposed to hook up with, www.dontdatehimgirl.com Enough is enough people. Let's wake up and take a peek at it in the real world--not reality t.v..

Of all the cheating relationships, men tend to be the ones that catch the most flack. I don't condone cheating. Let's get that straight, first. I just get sick and tired of hearing how men are the evil incarnate entity that drives women to either

a. be with another woman
or
b. revert into a shell of her former self

Let me tell the ladies a tad bit of info to help you out. Men cheat because of several reasons. I'll just name a few to kick around the campfire for discussion today.

1. His woman allows him to because she's doing the same
2. His woman would rather have a bad man, than no man
3. He was programmed to have sex early and often and hasn't found one woman to "satisfy him" completely
4. His woman doesn't listen to him when he tells her he wants to break up(she holds on, thinking she can fix it)
5. He's immature
6. He uses the cop out of being accused so much unjustly that he decides to cheat
7. His woman tells him no too often
8. Other women will do what his woman won't do
9. Women target men in relationships to hook up with just to be wicked towards other women

We can stop there. The reality is that both men and women cheat for one single reason. BECAUSE THEY WANT TO! Excuses are only needed because our society tries to glorify the relationship woes and make mockeries of them.

I know that most of my readers are women but I leave you with this question. If your man/husband cheated on you...and he came up with a good enough excuse as to why---would you leave or would you stay? Keep it real! An honest answer goes a long way. I have seen women say that they would rather be by themselves than with a cheating man. Then see that woman with the same guy(married no less) ater reconciling. Would you redefine the relationship or end it all together?

For the fellas I leave this note. Don't cheat! Be upfront about the intentions. In this age, she just might go for it...If you only ask. We don't have to lie to kick it. She may just want to have sex with you and pull the "Boomerang" move

Who is up for this challenge