Over the course of my young life, I have heard of the legendary" Playa's Card". It seems to be the pass used by men and women to engage in behavior that shows reckless abandon for the consideration of the opposite sex. For the holder of the card,the ones who earnestly sought to obtain it, it is as "heavenly" as the picture displayed above. Many people have accepted it as a means to operate under the guise of immature activities.
I choose to think differently. I own no such figurative card and I wince at the need to glorify it to our youth as a excuse for wanton destruction of our leaders of tomorrow.
I recently overheard some teenagers reference "the card" and it was like nails on a chalk board. They have been taught the "be the player---but don't get played" mentality which sickens me.
To keep it real, even in my many years of whorisms, I had not the need to use a card. I kept it real and gave women the option of "giving me some" because I asked and I didn't dupe them into thinking that they were my "only one/girlfriend/woman" I asked to hook up cause that's what I wanted to do---plain and simple. The honesty works fellas...please believe me. It was still wrong, but I exchanged the sin of lying and fornicating with just one of the two.
Here's my questions for both women and men:
Can a true "PLAYA's CARD" be revoked, stripped or suspended by becoming involved in a serious relationship? Orrrrr...does it have to be buried in an actual ceremony in the card holder's mind to relinquish its power? Conversely, if it is buried, is there a resurrection possible?
Who is up for a friendly discussion on how to destroy a "PLAYA'S CARD" PERMANENTLY???
We need to save these kids from making some horrible decisions, family!!!