Tuesday, April 24, 2007

I am not a robot..or am I?---repost of a fave blog




Its time to educate some women on male behavior patterns. Recently several of my friends have been experiencing man troubles. Being the good friend that I am, not Jody(the dude that crept up and did the things your man won't do...think about the Joe song back in da day)

I listened to all of the various stories about the goings on. Never in my wildest dreams would I have pulled some of the stunts these dudes pulled but I found myself drawn in to the blueprint of how masterfully it was done. There were people from all over the country...to my surprise....Men actually do the same sh** regardless of demographic location. The book "girl, he's just not into you" touched on the idea but still sugar coated the facts.

Here are some very, very few keys things to know about how men think. Ladies, men are possessive..Period. Once we have sex with you, its as though we think that we should be the last one your with...ever. If its a relationship that you cut off, we will try to put you through HELL and play tons of head games to keep you from moving on. Stay in mourning if the relationship goes bad and join a monastery.... Yeah i'm guilty of thinking that a time or two. There are of course exceptions to the rule...like casual hook ups...NO we don't always think you are a slut or a whore cause we hooked up real quick...we like to think our game is that tight.

The serious reality is that a lot of men are programmed at an early age via peer pressure from friends or family to engage in sex early and often. In order for that programming to be short circuited, we have to be ready to mature past that point. It really isn't you, ladies. We are the whores or have the mentality and for that reason alone keep your self esteem in tact! We are programmed like a robot, but we do grow up! Either help with the system reboot or wind up and let us go!


Are there are new software programs that you ladies can recommend to us?

Who is up for the challenge?

19 comments:

Girly_Girl said...

You men...

dc_speaks said...

hahahaha..i promise u...thats real talk. im going to be hated on for sharing though..a lil

Girly_Girl said...

Believe me, haters love to hate on me. Ask Rich in the STL.

I think what you say is true...I was just giving you a hard time.

dc_speaks said...

LOL...well gee thanks..rich has some great blogs...i like his work..ur poetry is like dat!!

Rich in the Stl said...

I really like your blog now. You giving me some props.

On the for real, what you are saying is true, but remember the rule: The game is to be sold, not told.

That's why I'm writing a book. LOL!

CortneyGee said...

i agree with Rich D you giving up too much for this not to be sponsored blog .. damn son why you letting them know how foul we are... befoe they just had the thought heheheeh

dc_speaks said...

cortney...we just talked about whats going down in cleveland..trust me rich...that was the appetizer...im holding a venue this year...for profit!!!!!

Dr. Girlfriend said...

Speak, speak DC...Your content on this piece is not only relevant but engaging and appealing for all readers of different ages-the Jody comment certainly reaches the Baby Boomers and the book title "He's just not that into you" obviously reaches a younger crowd..your delivery is great from title to closure-
Good job on this one

dc_speaks said...

why thank you dr girlfriend...ur going to make me blush...your an awesome person to bounce these topics off of..please be available for allll of my blogs...lol

Anonymous said...

I see, lol, I see how it is. Unfortunately it works both ways. I do agree with you on the fact that mena are controlling..lol I have known so many men that are in relationships like that. Thanks for the heads up. Know I will look for those qualities....so I can avoid those men. ;o)

Lance said...

mad shouts out to my lo zoners crew...girly_girl, rich in the stl, cortneygee....nice blogs dc, but cortney has a point...hehehehe...you giving up TMI, for the chicken heads to feed on. we gotta keep the inside track open. (;-P

nice job, blood...

the lo zoners: the new bebe's kids, we don't die, we multiply!!!!...i guess that makes us the lozo kids!!!!

ALL BLOGS BEWARE!!!!!

dc_speaks said...

lol..thanks lance..much appreciated brah!

Anali said...

Nice blog you have here! Thanks for stopping by mine. I have to admit that I'm a little tired, so I'm not up for the challenge at the moment! ; )

Rich in the Stl said...

Nice repost. I need to send some lady friends this way. I have a co-worker who got a divorce but the ex keeps trying to hit it because he knows she has a new lover and he's mad as hell.

Can't say I blame him. She's fine. It would have been cheaper (emotionally) to keep her.

Shai said...

LOL. Tell the truth. I would rather hear that then some convulted ish.

JustMeWriting said...

LOL. what I love most about the boys is the fact that they can dish is REAL good, but can't take a bit of it back... lol. Let's just practice giving it back to them ladies...they'll learn soon enough.

dc_speaks said...

Tanya?...whatttttt????? I can't believe you went there.

YOU! You're going to practice giving it back to us...hmmmmph

I don't think you have it in you....straight up.

But if you do, then i'm shocked. LOL!

JustMeWriting said...

LOL... WHAT?!?!?! WHAT?!?!?! OH...NO... MAMA DON'T PLAY THAT...hahah. That's why I've shed less tears over the boys and the milk spilled on them...hahah! I don't sweat, beg, or even ask too many questions...nor do I chase (pretty much that macho demeanor of my male-boys...lol) SO... that leaves me cool and them doing all the work, which they don't like to do. LOL. so THERE...

CapCity said...

men like this make my head hurt, hence the hiatus...