Friday, April 27, 2007

Pot Luck Friday...Part V



Dis shole duz look good!


This forum is a smash hit based on the great response from last week. I am excited to present once again POT LUCK FRIDAY..

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right. An open forum or a wish list if you will. For example, the "Stop SNitching" theory being taught to our kids or how current employers use sites like myspace as a screening tool to weed out potential employees.

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate.

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of every single question, we take the comment that is posted right before you, answer their comment question, then post your own question for the next person. We can discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

So without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 5?

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Shai said...

I have an topic non-relationship related.

Do you have a fear/phobia you have conquered, are overcoming, or have not dealt with?

I know one of my phobias is love and the other is driving.

CortneyGee said...

i'm deathly fearful of rats ... watched Willard as a child been scarred every since . My question not relationship one either ... is there ever a time where you have to give up on a dream ?

KIKI said...

NEVER give up on your dreams...your dreams are all you have.

My question...Barac is gaining in the polls...could it be possible?...Is the world ready for a black president?

Rich in the Stl said...

Fear of heights, I manage it, can't say I'm over it.

Never give up on a dream, just change your approach.

I'll vote for him, if he gets the Democratic nomination, then I'll get excited. --- Interesting note -- I was watching the movie Bobby, similar type of guy other than the obvious difference, and similar times those were. I hope not similar results.

My question -- I'll come back to it.

Shai said...

Yeah, Rich I feel ya on managing fear. I drive now and I just have to breathe and pray. LOL. I have a phobia really of having a bad accident. SMH.

As for love, I want it and fear it. LOL. Go figure. I have been getting advice and see Love will find me in its time and not to beat myself up about my apprehension.

dc_speaks said...

hmmmm...going back up to the last question asked by kiki
My question...Barac is gaining in the polls...could it be possible?...Is the world ready for a black president?

Answer: Hell yeah I would vote for him. His platform is sound and he is reaching out to every voter within 3 ft.

My question: If you were driving down the road, and a squirrel(like the little shit outside in my garbage can right now as I'm watching him happily eat..since my son didn't put the top back on)---would you run his ass over to make him road kill or would you swerve out of the way.

Khoney330 said...

I wouldn't aim for the squirrel, but I wouldn't swerve to miss it. So many accidents happen for that reason, rather a dead squirrel than a dead me.

I'll vote for Barac. I hope the world is ready for a black pres. I did think it would be a woman first.

I'll come back with my question.

dc_speaks said...

since the question line was broken..I'll ask one so that we don't get stuck.

My additional question:

How would you feel if you were job seeking and you listed your email on the resume and the employer used it to do a myspace search---found your site and saw you partying or a half naked shot---then called and told you that you were no longer being considered because of your private image? What would you do? or How would you handle it? would you delete the profile or change it?

please remember family...answer a question, then leave a question or it will just stop at you...and thats no fun.

Shai said...

I would not change my profile. If an employer wants to get that deep into my business and then use it against me, oh well. I think with the credit checks, drug tests, psychological tests and so on, employers are getting way too evasive. None of it will guarantee a law-biding, perfect employee. SMH.

What if you found a very explicit sex tape on Youtube of your spouse, what would you do?

JustMeWriting said...

Shai: I have a fear of opened doors and falling/heights (stop laughing)

CG: I'm with Rich, if you've not brought your dreams to fruition but still aspire for it...REVAMP,REGROUP and more importantly be REALISTIC. If it's something that time has a play in...stop wasting time.

Kiki: NO,NO AND NO. Not only do I think the world ISN'T ready for it, but I don't think they'd TOLERATE... I'm almost in fear for his life NOW.

Shai: on the love thing...that's ALL you can do...we'd drive ourselves crazy with something that's out of our control, so you're doing the right thing...just wait on it. He that waits on the Lord shall renew their strength ,they shall mount up on wings like an eagle, they shall fall but not faint, they shall run and never get weary. WAIT, live your life to the fullest and the time will past by until that special time comes.

DC: I can't even believe you asked that question... lol. MURDERER!!!

DC: I HATE myspace for that very reason...if you are a professional it's kinda hard to portray that with Myspace...UNLESS of course you're in the entertainment industry...and you should ALWAYS use TACT with anything related to you. Your PERSONAL like should remain just that... PERSONAL.. and not for all the world to see.

My question, Is honest ALWAYS the best policy OR what you don't know won't hurt you?

JustMeWriting said...

Shai: LOL... WHAT WOULD I DO??? HE'S OUTTA HERE!!! Because dude, it's not just that you cheated...we may have been able to work through that, but NOW you've subjected me to PUBLIC humiliation... and you CLEARY could care less AND you think I'm an IDIOT...LOL. WOW...YEAH, DUDE'S A GONER.

Girly_Girl said...

Oh, boy, how much time does everyone have? Those of you who know me well know that I am NEUROTIC as HELL. I have so many fears and phobias, it's ridiculous.

I'm fearful of public restrooms

I'm fearful of bridges

I'm terrified of someone trying to cut off my hair

I don't do well in small spaces--like elevators

Crowds freak me out...

There's more, but I'm starting to get anxious, so I better quit.

dc_speaks said...

Hey Tanya aka JMW..great question:

My question, Is honest ALWAYS the best policy OR what you don't know won't hurt you?

The last time I got into that question about a month ago, there was uproar amongst the peoples. I hate that I was up next to answer it actually.

Answer: I' d have to say that honesty is the best policy, that way a person has the information for themselves. They can determine how to process it based on all the facts instead of a jaded view. Though I still like to poeade the 5th alot. LOL

My question: If you're short on cash and you have a choice of paying a bill(knowing you can do it next check but it will be late) or doing something for yourself---what do you do?

Girly_Girl said...

Here are some more:

I'm scared of the doorbell ringing

I don't like the telephone ringing after dark

I'm seriously scared of mf's named DC...

CortneyGee said...

the squirrel is toast .. it's a rat with a blow out afro tail... fugg him... the dream question wasn't for me ... just thought i would ask it seeing I alays ask dumb things that might not be too heady. My next question is if someone has baad body and great sex but bad breathe is it ok to put them to curb or should you schedule them a dentist appointment ...

dc_speaks said...

hahahahaha...very funny! NOT!

I am scared to death of heights and driving in w va on the mountains, especially when its raining...trucks drive by about 90 mph while im clutching the wheel and turning the music down and telling my son not to speak to me or touch me...LOL

real talk!

dc_speaks said...

hahahaha..gizzle u never cease to amaze me.

Kick her to the fu***g curb. if her hygeine isn't important to her, what else does she neglect to take care of...ewwwwww

My question: should I have to ask an old teammate of mine from 20 plus years agos permission to knock off his sister? especially when we weren't that tight in the first place?

Cortney is not allowed to answer this question!!!

CortneyGee said...

just making it clear DC didn;t knock off my sister ya'll well maybe he did but she ain't said nuffin about it and he has kept quiet ... but if i could answer that i would say you wrong for wanting to bumped off your teammates sister unless you have real intentions to be with them... think that is across the board you can only boink family members if you are on the real.. go playfully pork chicks not in my tmobile top five and or those that will be at the family reunion .. my next question is if you do screw someone do you have to call them anymore ?

CapCity said...

@Shai - lol on the non-relationship topic that includes "love-phobia" (i don't think u mean platonic/familial love.

FEARS = I find other's apprehensions are like smoke that get in my clothes & I work DILIGENTLY to get it out, such as the "nervousness" i feel on planes since 9-11: Writing DURING my nervousness HELPS me - I see myself as a reporter who wants to write down what I'm feeling. FAITH, ADDRESSING, DISCUSSING, and using the POWER of words has GREATLY reduced my Phobias. I'm more afraid of the paralysis of fear.

DREAMS: NEVAH give up on 'em...maybe 'tweak' 'em - but always pursue & live some version of YOUR DREAM

BARACK: YEAH we're ready for a Black President - just don't get lulled into thinking that fact will make US any less -ism-FILLED;-)

ROAD-KILL: avoid when I can, pray for that spirit when I can't.

INTERNET presence: Never Use YOUR real name & switch up on emails. But most of all, as I teach my students How U present yourself electronically reflects on you in the REAL world AND YES college admissions officers LOOK at your myspace pages.

PUBLIC EXPLICIT SPOUSE VIDEO:
Just hope he doesn't find mine! LOL! seriously - hope that it was before we got together. I say again - if U REALLY closely observe your significant other: there will be very few surprises. Look at who they ARE not just who U want them TO BE.

HONESTY: As long as we are HONEST with ourSELVES - the rest is just bonus.

My Question(s):
1. What painful experience in your life has molded U into the FABULOUS person that U are today? What "fertilizer" sprouted your growth so much that as much as U hate to think back on it - U know u needed that lesson?

JustMeWriting said...

CG: hahahah... that's so funny...when you put it that way (a rat with a blowout...hahahahah...I HATE RATS). sorry, but he's got to go...I can't deal with B.B lol.

dc_speaks said...

@cap:My Question(s):
1. What painful experience in your life has molded U into the FABULOUS person that U are today? What "fertilizer" sprouted your growth so much that as much as U hate to think back on it - U know u needed that lesson?

Answer: I'd have to say that losing my uncle just 5 years older than me(in a car jacking/homicide) that was more like a brother, taught me to be stronger and self assured along with my Carpe Diem attitude.

Cortney's question is next to be answered---I think since they posted at the same time.

Cortney: my next question is if you do screw someone do you have to call them anymore ?

JustMeWriting said...

ohhh, great question Cap: I love the fact and I was picked on and picked out. I love the lack of parentail guidence I received from my parents. I even thank God for the abuse at the hands of Men (oh my childhood). More importantly then the actually happening of all that...I love how those events CLOSED me up...how they made me quiet and kept me silent long enought for God to teach me what to say and how to say it. Life is what it is for a reason...and I love every wrong and I love making them RIGHT... or ALRIGHT.

KIKI said...

@DC...people should date who they want to date (I do however feel the ex-spouse of a friend is off limits) everybody else is fair game

@Cap...since I recently had a "growth spurt" into FABOULOUSNESS, the fertilizer...my f*cked up pass relationships!

My question...Is it possible to maintain a friendship with someone you once had a romantic relationship with. And if so do you think it would be "healthy" to the pschy? (OK...so that two questions...I'm playing catch up lol).

CapCity said...

Y'all asking too many questions, NOW. LOL!

BAD BREATHE: = NO sex - won't need to put em to curb, they don't get to sidewalk. lol!

FAMILY "Matters": I'm with CG - don't engage w/family of my People = too messy!

POSTSCREW CALL: depends on the screwer & screwee

Forgot to answer my own question - The FERTILIZER that makes me FAB:
There is MUCH, but the most RECENT:
The AzzHole psycho at the last school where I taught who made it UNBEARABLE to return. I am so thankful NOW that I am "forced" to live my entrepreneurial & writer's dream (despite the fact that presently I'm experiencing financial struggles like never before in my adult years - but I'm also experiencing a PEACE I've never felt).

Shai said...

Ok, as far as the video question, I asked it because EVERYTHING under sun is being posted on the Net. My girlfriend once made a tape with her ex-fiance. When they broke up for a short time she tried to get it back he would not budge. She is now married to someone else. This made me think what if the prick got it into himself to post it.

As far as the personal on the Net, I share intimate things and if someone cannot handle it or use it against me then Fuck em. I know a job is a means to survival, it is not the end all be all if an employers does not want you based on what is on the Net. My poetry is sensual and some are not comfortable with it. I will still write it.

Would you date someone bisexual?

KIKI said...

Missed Corts question...as long as you didn't tell that lie "I'll call you tomorrow" who gives a shit if you call or not. Maybe she dont wanna talk to you either LMAO! (just playin!)

JustMeWriting said...

CG: NOPE they don't have to call...(but I'm sure they will) LOL. but it's his lost.

Shai: C-NOOOOOOO... on the bisexual...no such thing to me...and men who sleep with other men are gay.

Shai said...

LOL, JMW. I asked because a friend of mine's sis in law is bisexual and our male friends have dated her and even slept with her. Shoot, she had her ex-wife's name tattooed on her thigh when she was seeing them. SMH.

Rich in the Stl said...

OK, I'm back, lets see where I left off.

@DC - I swerve, it's the natural reaction for me.

@DC - I don't really do myspace. I also wouldn't put questionable stuff out there. As far as employers go. I have an aversion to them. They want people they can control, that's why I'm a two time run away slave of the corporate plantation. Hopefully, the third time will be the charm.

@shai - what would I do AFTER I kick her to sleep?

@JMW - honesty is tricky. I try to always be honest, but sometimes that lie slips out and you have to just run with it.

@gg - get a grip girl.

@CG - she needs a trip to the dentist.

@DC - sisters are off limits of anybody who used to be your boy. I know you know that. We ain't co-signing that for you.

@CG - Unless she was clearly a one night stand, yes you should call, even if it's to say that the sex was whack and you are no longer interested. Man up.

@CAP - don't think I've had anything terribly painful. My entire life has been one big growth process. -- Well, now that I think of it, becoming a teenage father was a major blow. I was the smart kid, that wasn't supposed to happen to me, so i realized that greatness doesn't just happen, you have to work for it.

@kiki - It's hard being friends only if the sex was real good. So stop kidding yourself or start slipping the panties back off.

My question, finally.

Why do we want to be in love so bad and then when we find ourselves really digging someone we go out the way to hide our feelings? (I know that was awful grammar, but work with me.)

CortneyGee said...

yeah I would date a woman that likes coochie .. we would have something in common well not really cause I love me some coochie !!!!
and to KiKi there are rules to this thang ... they were written long before we were hatched and are followed for a reason.. date the wrong person could find your ass in a hospital... that is on the real... my uncle got croaked that way ...

Sheletha said...

Go Pistons!!!

KIKI said...

@Cort...what are you taking about?...I'll ask again...

My question...Is it possible to maintain a friendship with someone you once had a romantic relationship with? And if so do you think it would be "healthy" to the pschy?

dc_speaks said...

F**k the pistons!! I can hardly stand the whole state of Mich...especially since I went to OSU!!!!!!! GO BUCKSSSSS!!!

here's my question: Who will win the NBA Championship this year and who will win the MVP for 06-07?

Sheletha said...

pistons...

Sheletha said...

Im not going through all those questions...sorry yall...



my question: Do you think being an exhibitionist is wrong???

CapCity said...

@ Kiki - i'm friends with several of my exes & it's cool - I just don't hang out with 'em like i used to, but i don't trip on them either.

@ Shai - again, i agree w/ JMW - bisexual men = gay. Of course men see women bisexuals differently. But, Sex has returned to its God-intended place for me = not just about the orgasm, so i don't indulge for the mere sake of indulgence.

@ Rich - In my youth & before my closer walk with Our Father I was afraid of being hurt & feeling used...

@Sheletha - even if you're not playing along with DC's "game" - i'm not afraid to show affection for my significant other publicly, but no public "SEX".

@ those sports questions - not in my radar zone

CortneyGee said...

Barac ain't going to be president stop dreaming .. even Martin Luther King the Jr would advice him against it .. " Nigga did you see what happened to me and I was just asking for civil rights ... ?"

Being an exhibitionist is cool long as you gt goods worthy of viewing

KiKi you said that everyone is fair game .. that mentality can get perswon hurt that was what I was saying .. and ain't you at work do some damn work get off this blog ...muahahahahahah

Who will win NBA championship and MVP ...? Who gives a shit aint putting no money in my pocket

Shai said...

I would not date a bisexual. I have had this discussion with men all said yeah to a date but one. He was like Hell Naw.

DETROIT BASKETBALL. Now I know why I got probs with ya DC, you a Gemini and from OH. LOL.

I have had sex in public at night. It is fun. LOL.

What would you NEVER do for a lover, minus anything illegal?

Khoney330 said...

I do believe you can remain freinds with someone you've had an intimate relationship with. Only takes a bit of maturity.. that's if the shyt was not f'd up. I don't think it's cool for the screwing of the fam with no real intentions, don't wanna hear about that mess later.

Question: What's more important in a relationship, time, money, sex or all of the above?

CortneyGee said...

question .. when women leave clothes over your house ie panties ... how do they actually forget them if they aren't trying to drop off hints for next broad...?

Sheletha said...

@cort - women can be territorial too!

just put them in a Lost & Found box in the closet in the front room.

dc_speaks said...

3 open questions for SHAI, CORT GEE and KHONEY FOR NEXT COMMENT.

pick one and deal with that and leave your own question.

@Shai: I'm a cancer not a gemini.

Sheletha said...

how much is too much to spend on shoes?

KIKI said...

hehehe @Cort...ok I got it now & for clarification I was talking about if it was a serious thing not a hit it & quit it, but I'm not a man so what do I know?

...and shaddup...yeah I'm at work, but what that mean...you know me...I do what the f*ucks I wanna do!...that aint never gonna change LMAO...

Dating bi-sexual men...eeewwww!

Exhibitionism...if you got it flaunt it...I'd be naked everyday if it wasn't illegal (I know...TMI)LOL

PlayoffS...Go Cavs (LMAO!)

@Shai...if I felt this man was devoted to me...there's nothing I wouldn't do for him!

Next question...What's more important when looking for employment/making career choice...the fact that you enjoy doing what you do or how much it pays (assuming you can't have it both ways...one or the other)?

CortneyGee said...

She She you know about my box ... rofl

Shai said...

@Kiki's comment
...if I felt this man was devoted to me...there's nothing I wouldn't do for him!

You would do anything even it you hated it completely? I know I don't want to have another baby, love ain't enough for me to give birth again. Seriously.

Would your get yourself "fixed" if you knew you never wanted to have kids again even if you are single at the time?

Sheletha said...

yes!!!!!, I tried years ago, but my doctor told me no...

Sheletha said...

what types of social outting you would never do alone???

ie. movies, dinner at a restaurant..

dc_speaks said...

@Khoney:Question: What's more important in a relationship, time, money, sex or all of the above?

That's a great question---it kinda depends on the level of relationship...for me---it would be all of the above although sex would be important at night more than anything else. daytime would be probably money and time would vary.

JustMeWriting said...

OK...SHEESH, you guys are sending me into overload!!! LOL.
CG: LOL. @ that Barac/King comment

Shai: I don't think I'd hold anything back from my dude...and I trust that he'd not ask or want me to do something I HATE so much OTHERWISE It's time to rethink that LOVE.

KiKi: yeah, I think it's possible to stay friends as long as everyone's on the same page.

CG: she left dem panties on purpose Shelthea: LOL on the lost and found) anything more then what I have is too much to spend on shoes.. lol

Kiki: I need to LOVE what I'm doing...I'm at the point of being satisfied by my passion...I'll find another way to suppliment my income

Shai: yeah, if I knew that's what I wanted.

Um... lets see, what's the best method of education your kids on Sex?

JustMeWriting said...

Khoney: yeah...good question, I'm with DC but if it's a commited loving relationship i'd say sex...lol, I've never really cared about money and I love my free time, but don't cheat me on the sex...lol.

Shelthea: I've gone to movies alone, but dinner would probably be the one I'd never do.

Sheletha said...

best method of sex education: Parents


or walking in on your parents..

Khoney330 said...

Shai though I don't believe I'll be having anymore children, I still would not get myself "fixed". You never know if you'll be in a different phase of your life and want to have another child.

If I felt a man was devoted to me, he'd definitely have my devotion and all that came with it.

I'm also going to answer my own question:
Time and sex are what's most important to me, if you've got the time, then the sex is probaly falling in line too.

dc_speaks said...

I have a question: what drink do you absolutely stay away from if you're hanging out and very horny---so that you don't have to get to tipsy and f**k someone with no inhibitions?

LOL

Sheletha said...

Gin.

Sheletha said...

Have we broke the record for the most comments on one post?

Lo said...

CAIPIRINHAS!!!

Four please, in rapid succession...

Lo said...

Sheletha, does that count as a question? If so, looks like DC is really an alpha male fa' sho, with all the action he's got going on over here.

My question: spit or swallow?

Lo said...

(sorry y'all, HoZone said that, not me...that damn skank.)

KIKI said...

I'm with Sheletha...As my country folx say...Gin makes you sin...

Question...what's the one thing you've always wanted to do but never have?

KIKI said...

Miised Lo...spit(LOL)

Sheletha said...

swallow.

dc_speaks said...

I don't know about a record for anyone else...but it certainly is one for me...

I'm loving the interaction between us folks.

KiKi's answers: Jump out of airplane to hang glide.

My question: Is it cruel to make your kids do what your parents made you do...ie: run errands when we don't feel like getting up off of our asses?

Khoney330 said...

Swallow
DC, what goes around ..., our parents did it to us, we do it to our kids, our kids will do it to their kids.

Khoney330 said...

Go on a nice vacation out of the country.

Rich in the Stl said...

Gotta love all these ride or die chicks. Open wide.

Yo, DC, you got Friday on lock!

Sheletha said...

lets go for a hunnit!

Lo said...

"Open wide." Hmm.

Maybe "timber!!!" would be more appropriate. Women like a good warning. ;-)

Sheletha said...

i cant think of a question.

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Man With Balls said...

Sometimes with all that sucking noise they can't hear, so let 'em enjoy the protein.

Since we're on the sex.

Ladies, what brings on the orgasm, everytime? Good dick or good lick?

Khoney330 said...

A man who keeps hitting the spot when you about to let go, not change up the game so I gotta find it alllll ova again.

JustMeWriting said...

LOL...this is something else.
LO: Spit! only Gail Swallows...lol (Scarymovie)

um...that's a good HARD question Kiki: ACT...I've always wanted to be in a stage play...lol and be in a BAND. I'd be nina simone.

JustMeWriting said...

MWB: ILL... you so nasty...LOL!!! Ok, I'm going to answer this question...I'd say da 'D' (not really into the 'L')

Sheletha said...

MWB...just like a Libra, I can't decide.

Lo said...

Start with licks, close with dick.

Lo said...

Question: if today was your last day on earth, who would you tell you loved that you had been holding back on, if that person exists?

dc_speaks said...

dayum.. ya;'ll are off the chain in here today.

Next question: what do women like more..flowers/candy or something more creative that can't be store bought?

Rich in the Stl said...

Kiki - I would love to be an actor and radio show host. I'm working on some of the others already.

Next question:

What's your biggest turnoff with the opposite sex?

Khoney330 said...

Hi-five to Lo on that!

Sheletha said...

my blogger fam....


((tear)))

nah, fugg yo couch..

I would tell my mom & daddy.

JustMeWriting said...

LO: good question...WELL, I think I've pretty much told most people, but I'd probably reiterate it to some family members, but I'd tell someone that I see myself falling in love with them...I think it would come as a surprise too, but I'm outta here so who cares...LOL.

Sheletha said...

@ clyde...shoes.

CortneyGee said...

I like the back and forth going on here ... I'm offended if a chicks spits swallow it ...dammit it's good for you ... my question :Should you go back to a flame even if you wronged them ? Or is it best to just let it fade knowing you are setting yourself up for them to fuck over you

Sheletha said...

Rich...biggest turn off...wives

JustMeWriting said...

DC: frig the flowers and candy, but on the traditional stuff..I love teddy bears.

rich: my biggest turn off is a BUM... a man who's a leech...

Sheletha said...

cort...in the words of Ursher---Let It Burn....


always look forward

Lo said...

Sheletha: shoes are the keys to this woman's heart.

Khoney330 said...

DC: It really is the thought that counts. If you put real effort into a gift, it will show, in the response and in the "response".

dc_speaks said...

2 open questions: mine and rich's---any takers?

Khoney330 said...

JMW I'm with you on that, you have to at least show me, you're trying. I'm in your corner as long as I see that.

Sheletha said...

I thought i anwsered those...

Sheletha said...

7 more....

dc_speaks said...

sheletha you are nuts!

question: how many people in here have more than 2 best friends in their life?

Khoney330 said...

I knew you were going to freeze the board with that question.

dc_speaks said...

lol...I have 3...I'm spoiled

2 dudes and 1 gal...you're not funny Khoney

ok then, new question: if you're over a friends house and their dishes need to be washed---do you just bust them out or say"ni99a wash your dishes"...LOL

Rich in the Stl said...

Best friends are hard to come by.

As I get older, I'm not sure I have one outside of my wife, people fall off or they are finicky as hell. I do however have some great friends, a few anyway. Lots of acquaintances.

Question:

Ladies - is toe sucking a turn-on or turnoff?

Rich in the Stl said...

If I didn't eat, I ain't washing no dishes, unless they are sick or something. If I ate, then it's all good.

Khoney330 said...

Toe sucking does nothing for me. I keep my peace on the dish washing. That's their business.

Lo said...

Depending on how good a friend it is, I'll probably just start washing the dishes without being asked because I love washing dishes and the feel of hot, soapy water.

RE best friends, I had 2 (female) friends for a long time, but now I have 3 (a guy was added).

Sheletha said...

101!!! YAYA WE MADE IT

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Sheletha said...

I got excited and double clicked...sorry...

JustMeWriting said...

DC:I've got 1 best friend...I'd probably mind my bitnes about the dishes
Rich: TOE SUCKING IS THE BEST (getting it that is)

dc_speaks said...

awww..you guys are awesome. i love this forum.

new question: if your pet was not breathing, would you administer cpr?

lol@Cort and LO specifically---but anyone is invited to answer

dc_speaks said...

toe sucking does nothing for me but their are some other things that will get me to lose my mind...hahahahaha---if done properly that is.

ie: scratching my scalp and oiling it . ya'll thought i was going to be nasty didn't ya?

Lo said...

I would be all over mouth-to-mouth with my poobies. Sorry for the visual, but my dawgies are fam. When I get the flu, they line their little bodies around me to try to keep me warm...without me even asking.

The least I can do is give them CPR. There's always Listerine for after.

Sheletha said...

Toe Sucking does nothing for me...im too ticklish...if you want to get kicked in the face..go for what you know.

you might mess up the french pedicure anyway...


Best Friends...I dont have those anymore...I got my girls...there are only a few who I would do anything for, and they will do the same for me. other than sending me my damn leather coat that I left in their car last year. That damn LaDonna.

Sheletha said...

are y'all tired yet?

Lo said...

Question: sex first thing in the morning or sex last thing at night?

Sorry. It's feeling sexy up in here, so I figured I'd keep the mood going.

Shai said...

Damn I leave and the comments are at 46, come back and they are at 110.

I am planning to get fixed. Khoney, I am a parent and know it takes alot. I don't want that. I am being honest and serious. It takes so much and I don't want to do it. I will be 40 in 3 years and I want to enjoy ME. I had my child at 20 and don't know how it is to be single and free. Even if I fall in love and marry I want a man who does not want anymore kids.

Is it selfish to not want kids?

Rich in the Stl said...

Sex both times, especially if I don't have to punch the clock the next day.

New Question:

Fella’s – Would you be comfortable taking a relationship long term with a woman who made twice as much as you?

Ladies – Would you be comfortable taking a relationship long term with a guy who made considerably less than you?

Sheletha said...

Like I true Libra again, can't decide..I like them both

Rich- I would consider if the dude made less than I do, I don't think its a problem. In terms of the home I would have to go with the Geeism of "know your place and STFU"

Lo said...

Rich: If the guy is meeting all my needs, it's all good. The money's going to a common kitty anyway, and because I'm attracted to strong, bold men who aren't afraid to lead, odds are if I'm making more money, he's going to eventually catch up, pass me, or we'll do it together.

Question: with or without peppers?

Sheletha said...

@ LO...peppers on what???

Rich in the Stl said...

That's just it. A real man ain't digging that lay down shit. Does the woman having more money mean that she doesn't submit?

I know that's gone start some ish.

Rich in the Stl said...

No peppers. I like mine mild.

Good answer Lo.

Shai said...

Rich, if a man made more or less than I did would not be the point. How he managed his money would. Like does he pay rent on time or his mortgage, does he get his car repoed, does he have a fly car and a jacked up place to stay. And so on. Money management is a turn for me, a brotha who can take care of bidness. LOL.

Would you someone who was on unemployment due to a layoff?

Lo said...

@Sheletha: whatever you would or wouldn't put 'em on.

Question: shaved...or not?

Shai said...

Cort, be grateful she sucked. Who cares if she spits.SMH.

Rich in the Stl said...

DEFINITELY shaved -- Damn Lo, you bringing it.

Shai said...

I like a man who is groomed. A negro with a bush around his dick is not appealing. LOL.

Sheletha said...

If you are submitting to the right person. Im not the one to disrupt divine order, so I would tend to let the man be the head of household.

Rich in the Stl said...

Let's just also hope she doesn't have any ugly hair bumps down there, that messes up the experience.

Shai said...

Ladies, hairy chest or smooth chest?

Sheletha said...

oh yeah the, I like peppers...and cheese.


shaved.


man, somebody asked me a question and fugged up my order!!!!

Rich in the Stl said...

a bush around the dick - ROFL

Sheletha said...

smooth chest is cool...

Sheletha said...

that fine hair on the small of their back is fun to play with too!

Shai said...

Ladies, which would you take ugly feet or ugly hands?

Gents, ugly feet or no butt?

Shai said...

Dang it is like IMing up in here. LOL. I cannot keep up.

Sheletha said...

ill take ugly feet...

Sheletha said...

LETS GO FOR A HUNNIT AND FIDDY!!!!

IM STOPPIN AT 5:00, just so you know.

Sheletha said...

sex in the shower or sex in the tub? (garden sized of course)

Shai said...

The tub less chance of my old butt slipping and breaking something.

Rich in the Stl said...

no butt - can't stand ugly feet - only one girl in my past got a pass on that and she gave great head.

Shower definitely.

dc_speaks said...

ill take shaved, ugly feet, peppers, morning and night, she can make more money, i dont do hairy women...hmmmmm im tryin got play catch up..

oh wow..this is great!

Lo said...

@Sheletha: In the shower AND the tub. (And the floor and the closet and the car, et al).

Oh yeah, and to answer my own earlier question: morning AND night.

Question: teabags or russian blow jobs?

Rich in the Stl said...

on second thought, a big tub and bubbles would be nice.

Rich in the Stl said...

teabags or russian blow jobs - what tha? I'm lost.

Shai said...

Ladies, short dick or thick dick?

dc_speaks said...

shower definitely

Sheletha said...

come on nah...thick...

Rich in the Stl said...

what if thick is short

Sheletha said...

wait a minute...i gotta google the teabags...

I heard it before never inquired.

dc_speaks said...

tea bag please for me..thank you very much..

ya'll so nasty in here?

can we talk about the war in iraq now or wine?

where's saadia now?
What's your fave wine, family?

Lo said...

@Rich: if you don't know, nevermind.

@Shai: how about long thick dicks as an option? if so, I'll put my check mark next to that.

Not too long or too thick, though. I wanna live to tell about it.

KIKI said...

DAYUM...We need to call Gueness or something...this has to be a record...


MWB...a little of both...lick it then stick it

Lo...my first love...the one that got away

DC...the more creative the better...I can buy my own flowers & candy

Rich...I'm with JM...a leech is the BIGGEST turn off

Cort...depends on your intentions...if its someone you care about & want to give it another shot, go for it. If your only going back to avoid punishment...drop em & bend over...take your spanking like a man LOL!

DC...dont believe in having too many friends...I have 1...and we've been best friends since we could talk. When I find my "soul-mate" that'll make 2.

Rich...DEFINATELY A TURN ON!

LO...morning, mid-morning, afternoon, mid-afternoon, evening, later in the evening, really late in the evening (ok...so I'm horny...and...)LOL

Shai...nothing selfish about it at all...it's your body...your life...and eventually we have to stop taking care of others & take care of ourselves & our needs.

My question...Damn, arent ya'll tired of asking questions? LOL

couldn't think of anything else to ask right now...but dont wanna break the chain...DC's rules...

Sheletha said...

Is that some LA type of sex?? WTF...

Lo said...

My favorite wine is on my back with some Jodeci in the background.

Oh, my bad. You said "wine," didn't you. I read it wrong.

Shai said...

Yeah Lo what is a Russian blow?

Rich in the Stl said...

Come on, I been married a while, hook a brother up on the tea bag and russian blow job explanation.

I can't google that at work.

Sheletha said...

nothing comes up anyway...

dc_speaks said...

DC fugg yo couch .. my dishes being dirty in my sink serves as a reminder to me I'm here dammit

Khoney330 said...

Manicured.

Me making more money is not a problem for me should not be a problem for him. Man up!

Not too much hair, or smooth.

Sex in the tub, ugly feet.

Put me to sleep and wake me up baby!

Lo said...

@Shai: A Russian blow job is when a guy f*cks your tits. Chick smashes her tits together and the guy pumps.

Not that I would know. I lead a very dull life. Us writers are so damn vicarious. ;-)

Sheletha said...

ohhhhhhhhh....

Lo said...

@Rich, this is a teabag. (click the word)

From what I hear, some guys really like 'em.

Of course, I wouldn't know, lowly bored, vicarious writer that I am.

Khoney330 said...

Thick!

Shai said...

rich teabagging is when the man dips his balls in a woman open mouth. Think about it. Dunk! LOL. I got that from Soul Plane.

Sheletha said...

thats what that is called??


Okay yall Im out...talk to ya on the phone or whatever...holler!

dc_speaks said...

Cort..get off my damn name and get your own name up...

for those of you that don't know...cort gizzle just lives 4 mins away and I left my id up at his house...

Wash your dishes ni99a!!!

Lo said...

@Sheletha: It's good to know there's a name for what you're doing, isn't it?

Have a great weekend, Sheletha!!! You kept it fun up in here!!!

dc_speaks said...

byeeeeeee sheletha....have a great weekend...though i know we will probably talk at some point anyway.

sheletha loves to make her phone call rounds...hahahaha

Rich in the Stl said...

y'all crazy as hell -- there's a name for what you do.

Tea bagging over Russian Blow Jobs, never liked tit fucking, maybe they've never been creamy enough.

KIKI said...

Could ya'll slow the hell down...dayum cant keep up LOL

Sheletha...Shower & tub...who cares as long as I'm gettin some (hehehe)

Shai...I thought all men had ugly feet LOL

Lo...since I dont have any tiddy's...tea bag please

Sahi...agreeing with LO...give me long & thick

DC...what ever gets me buzzed!

Question...doggy-style or missionary?

CortneyGee said...

oops didn't even notice that .. I like to teabag a broad ... I dont like to tit fugg never found the joy... but my nuts on her nose suits me fine .. Cortney Gee gentleman if you let me rough neck by nature
question how come none of ya'll come to my blog and drop these many comments ( ooh I know I'm opening myself up for some hurt !!!! ) hahahaha

Khoney330 said...

I like it both ways, especially if he knows what he's doing.

CortneyGee said...

what Sheletha I'm not the only one you call you two timing kalamazoo hussy

Shai said...

Kiki, I have had a couple of men with bad azz bodies, hands and feet included. Whew!

Lo said...

Kiki: Missionary. I'm a traditional girl. I like to see my man on top of me, staring me in the eye, making me submit to his will.

Shai said...

I agree with Lo. I want the missionary with legs over shoulders.

Shai said...

Spank on the azz during sex or not?

Rich in the Stl said...

Missionary. I like to see what I'm doing to her. Like to look at them breasts bounce while I'm working her.

KIKI said...

I hear LO...make me SUBMIT...

Lo said...

@Shai: He can spank whatever the hell he wants. Especially the monkey.

Rich in the Stl said...

Dayum, my wife better be ready, ya'll might put a nigga in harms way with all these visuals. No happy hour and drinks for me.

KIKI said...

SPANK ME BABY!

Lo said...

@Cort: Sheletha never calls me. Why won't anyone play with me? I wanna play reindeer games!!! Play with me!!! Stop giving me the Rudolph treatment!!!

*calming down now*

Rich in the Stl said...

Beat that azz, she's been a bad girl

Lo said...

Damn, Rich, you sound like Celie talking to Harpo.

dr.Girlfriend said...

Good evening everyone....wow not only is today history in the making with the number of comments but the variety of topics runs the gamut!
Too many questions before to comment on but the most immediate question was a spank during sex or not:
Only the man I am intimate with gets to know the answer ;)

Question: Is educational background important in your compatibility profile for the opposite sex?

CapCity said...

DAYUMMMMMM, it's like a run-away train up in dis PEICE! i guess y'all don't work on fridays? LOL!

LO - dap on the L then the D! Why should I have to choose? ANd I prefer SEX Early mornin', late at Nite, Noon...
Whenever my partner's ready I'm ABLE! and I work at home now too? WHAT? lol! let's get it crack-alackin'....well, once I end this hiatus (which i think may be SOON;-)

long as we're both freshly showered - i want to be licked & will lick JUST about E'ryWHERE!

GREATEST turn ON - to have a man play in my hair/give me a head massage - but first I have to find u worthy - don't let joe ugmo touch me & think he'll get it.

i can't keep up w/ the rest - but found those questions most interesting. lol.

my question - has DC reached 200 comments, yet?

KIKI said...

And pull my hair while you're at it...LOL! Which brings me to my next question...

Ladies...have your hair pulled or gently running their fingers thru your hair

dc_speaks said...

@dr. G: if she is smart enough to understand what I like...then the education is a moot point

CortneyGee said...

damn all the traditional girls in here .. up the azz or not ladies.. I'm no doo doo chaser but I thought I would ask

Shai said...

Don't spank me. That is a sure turnoff. Now rub my azz, squeeze, bite it or lick it, don't spank me. LOL.

Shai said...

Kiki: Rub my scalp, run your fingers through don't pull, I almost smack a negro who tried to man handle my hair. LOL.

Shai said...

CG: It is not an entrance area.

Lo said...

I keep my hair cut short, but I do like having my head rubbed. If a man tried to snatch my hair as short as it is now, it would definitely be a gesture of violence that would be of grave concern.

JustMeWriting said...

YOU GUYS ARE SOOOOO NASTY...LOL. UM, UM, UM! Everybody's going to be all FIRED UP when they go home. I think it's going to 200...WHOA! oh well...i'm out. have a good weekend all. I close I'll close like you guys...

Would you have a threesome with your mate and a relative of his/hers?

Shai said...

Men, dirty talk or screaming?

Lo said...

@Cort: don't ask, don't tell.

Lo said...

but...stay away from my butt.

Shai said...

NO, three's a crowd.

KIKI said...

@Cort...depends on the man & how freaky I'm feeling

Shai said...

Dang Bloggers D. I am full off this buffet. Talk about potluck. I am out too. Don't yall folks work? I called in sick. LOL.

Rich in the Stl said...

A threesome with one of her a relatives -- hell naw, one of her fine ass girlfriends -- hell yeah.

CortneyGee said...

Lo you know I think it;'s a shitty job but ( no pun intended ) sometimes shit happens

dr. Girlfriend said...

You guys need window units, central air and an open refrigerator to cool the heat down up in here! :)

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