Sincere Gratitude

I just want to say that I am absolutely thrilled with the response on Pot Luck Friday. I think we all had a great deal of fun and encourage you all to come back whenever you can.

With that type of support and love shown, I can do nothing but express deep appreciation for my blog family and encourage those of you that don't blog to start doing it so we can start a revoloution of new writers. It doesn't take a lot of people to make a lot of change.

Let's all change the world by using whatever means that we have.

I challenge us all to start in our own homes and then sew seeds into the world.

Much love and I'll be making my rounds daily to visit all of you.

Sincerely,


D.C.

dc...movie critic?

I'm about to chase after my new dream. Movie critic extraordinaire! Unfortunately I won't be paid for it---I'll be coming out of my pocket instead.

Very rarely do I get an opportunity to catch a brand new flick when it comes out. I used to have all the priviledges of getting to pre screenings because one of my best friends is the Promotions/Marketing Director for the top urban radio station in Cleveland. She moved and all my perks went right along with her.

Since I am out of the loop on current movies, can ya'll please tell me the titles of the last movies you have seen so I can go start my career as a movie critic?

Anyone care to share?

Pot Luck Friday...Part V

Dis shole duz look good!


This forum is a smash hit based on the great response from last week. I am excited to present once again POT LUCK FRIDAY..

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right. An open forum or a wish list if you will. For example, the "Stop SNitching" theory being taught to our kids or how current employers use sites like myspace as a screening tool to weed out potential employees.

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate.

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of every single question, we take the comment that is posted right before you, answer their comment question, then post your own question for the next person. We can discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

So without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 5?

Playa's Card---myth or reality?

Over the course of my young life, I have heard of the legendary" Playa's Card". It seems to be the pass used by men and women to engage in behavior that shows reckless abandon for the consideration of the opposite sex. For the holder of the card,the ones who earnestly sought to obtain it, it is as "heavenly" as the picture displayed above. Many people have accepted it as a means to operate under the guise of immature activities.

I choose to think differently. I own no such figurative card and I wince at the need to glorify it to our youth as a excuse for wanton destruction of our leaders of tomorrow.

I recently overheard some teenagers reference "the card" and it was like nails on a chalk board. They have been taught the "be the player---but don't get played" mentality which sickens me.

To keep it real, even in my many years of whorisms, I had not the need to use a card. I kept it real and gave women the option of "giving me some" because I asked and I didn't dupe them into thinking that they were my "only one/girlfriend/woman" I asked to hook up cause that's what I wanted to do---plain and simple. The honesty works fellas...please believe me. It was still wrong, but I exchanged the sin of lying and fornicating with just one of the two.

Here's my questions for both women and men:

Can a true "PLAYA's CARD" be revoked, stripped or suspended by becoming involved in a serious relationship? Orrrrr...does it have to be buried in an actual ceremony in the card holder's mind to relinquish its power? Conversely, if it is buried, is there a resurrection possible?

Who is up for a friendly discussion on how to destroy a "PLAYA'S CARD" PERMANENTLY???
We need to save these kids from making some horrible decisions, family!!!

SHR THURSDAY-SHOT HEARD ROUND THE WORLD

In case you needed a quick 3 min history lesson...

YAYYYYYYYYY...IT"S SCHOOLHOUSE ROCK THURSDAY!!



ENJOY, FAMILY!!

Elementary...counting by 2's SHR

oh yeahhhhh!!!!!




lol..I forgot what counting by 2's was on School House Rock!

My main man....not my dude!----REPOST!!!

Happy Wednesday!!! Given the fact that most of my relationship based blogs are romantic in nature, I'd like to highlight the fact that I do have some homies. I used to have a girlfriend ask me why I felt the need to call up my best friend weekly and touch base or vice versa.

Has our society fallen prey to the "Down Low, Brother" phobia to the extent where dudes can't comfortably express masculine affection? My best friend lives in Raleigh, NC. and I'm not ashamed of closing my conversation with "I love you, brah/black man"!

I mean c'mon man...best friends since we were 10 years old and it was an issue of my sexuality...I still can't believe it actually. On the real, I probably spend more time with my boys now than I ever have because we are more in tune with conversing on women's needs or comparing notes on screwed up ex's(reference the ex girlfriend graveyard by Cortney Gee)..LOL However, that still doesn't mean that it's alot of time either...just more than when I was married or engaged. I liken it to the movie "The Brothers". Positive male relationships help keep some of my boys grounded..

My thinking must be a lil off because I was taught to maintain positive male relationships and continue to perpetuate that in my sons. How can a man learn best how to treat a woman in his youthful years if he doesn't witness one at home. Far too often women "try" to teach young men how to be young men and end up f****g them up by steering them towards feminine behavior without even knowing it. Young boys that end up as gay men...retrospectively may not have had positive masculine relationships.

Ladies, if your dude spends more time with his boys than you like, let him know in a loving way...to throw the "are you gay" line will probably cause him to go on a tremendous heterosexual rampage!!! We are extremely vindictive when you unjustly question our manhood. Trust me! I personally have helped prevent some of my boys from hooking up with other women when they were mad at their women. I'm just trying to help you all out.

How would you like it if you were acceused of lesbianism, cause you all always go to the bathroom in groups together? Think of it that way.

Now what would be an easier,nicer and more effective way to tell that ni99a to keep his a$$ at home?
Who's up for the challenge?

I am not a robot..or am I?---repost of a fave blog

Its time to educate some women on male behavior patterns. Recently several of my friends have been experiencing man troubles. Being the good friend that I am, not Jody(the dude that crept up and did the things your man won't do...think about the Joe song back in da day)

I listened to all of the various stories about the goings on. Never in my wildest dreams would I have pulled some of the stunts these dudes pulled but I found myself drawn in to the blueprint of how masterfully it was done. There were people from all over the country...to my surprise....Men actually do the same sh** regardless of demographic location. The book "girl, he's just not into you" touched on the idea but still sugar coated the facts.

Here are some very, very few keys things to know about how men think. Ladies, men are possessive..Period. Once we have sex with you, its as though we think that we should be the last one your with...ever. If its a relationship that you cut off, we will try to put you through HELL and play tons of head games to keep you from moving on. Stay in mourning if the relationship goes bad and join a monastery.... Yeah i'm guilty of thinking that a time or two. There are of course exceptions to the rule...like casual hook ups...NO we don't always think you are a slut or a whore cause we hooked up real quick...we like to think our game is that tight.

The serious reality is that a lot of men are programmed at an early age via peer pressure from friends or family to engage in sex early and often. In order for that programming to be short circuited, we have to be ready to mature past that point. It really isn't you, ladies. We are the whores or have the mentality and for that reason alone keep your self esteem in tact! We are programmed like a robot, but we do grow up! Either help with the system reboot or wind up and let us go!

Are there are new software programs that you ladies can recommend to us?

Who is up for the challenge?

Phone call etiquette---Reposting a fave of mine

Here's a topic certainly open for discussion! When is the appropriate time to make the first call and the last call. I remember the "programming" that I received as a young lad...please reference previous blog"I am not a robot..or am I". After meeting someone and exchanging numbers, wait 3 days to call so that you don't look too thirsty. Or here's another one, if someone hasn't returned more than 3 calls, don't call back.

My typical spin is pretty normal for this situation....

Personal experiences to expose myself just for a second....I have made the call too early in the past and made the call after 3 unreturned calls. Did I feel like a loser?...well Yeah!!!

Fortunately and unfortunately, I have a big ego! On the flip side, did I do the same thing...well Yeah!! First call are sometimes the most uncomfortable one..what questions to ask...who leads the conversation blah blah blah....how personal of a question can I get away with?....often times they determine if there are going to be any future calls as well. hint hint...clue clue people...asking about last time they had sex is too fu*****g personal!

The fun situation though...the break up calls. Who gets the last word in on the break up call? When is it acceptable to make a call after the "well f**k it then" or "we don't need to talk anymore" line has been crossed. The answer is....NEVER...atleast not for me anymore!

Recognize your phone etiquette personality traits..most fall into 5 categories
1. Aggressive male-sometimes misconstrued as cocky or controlling...ME, MY, MINE
2. Passive male-almost always a turn off to most women(that's what they tell me)..too much dead air time..fumbles to strike up conversations...
3. Aggressive female-generally talks too much and always likes to have the last word in...or has a comment on every statement made by the male.
4. Passive female-some would say the opposite of aggressive female...but I think not..more like the woman that prefers to follow the lead of the male in the conversation.(GREAT!!!!)
5. Relaxed intensity individual-male or female that understands the flow of the conversation and instinctively modifies to make it a comfort call(The best position)

Of course this is a generality on the topic...based on my perspective!

The alternative to all of this is to just text/IM each other...and never have any phone calls. In that case, you can be whatever or whoever you want to be! Smile...

If you can think of additional number's please share them.

Who's up for the challenge?

Pot Luck Friday..Part IV

Dis shole duz look good!


This forum is a smash hit based on the great response from last week. I am excited to present once again POT LUCK FRIDAY..

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right. An open forum or a wish list if you will. For example, the "Stop SNitching" theory being taught to our kids or how current employers use sites like myspace as a screening tool to weed out potential employees.

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate.

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of every single question, we take the comment that is posted right before you, answer their comment question, then post your own question for the next person. We can discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

So without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 5?

the myspace bandit...not for the faint at heart!!!

ok folks...I have to do this post. A very good friend of mine was ambushed by the myspace bandit...

and why do you say that???...well I'm glad that you asked. My friend was ambushed for being polite. Oh Nooooooo....you might think that sounds absurd but I can assure you dear readers, that it is the absolute truth.

I would like to make it known that this is an actual poem sent to the young lady in question...ANDDDDD I will post the question that dude posed to her after sending it off to her.

Unlike our own resident poets in the blog family, we have an example of "WHEN KEEPING IT REAL WITH POETS GOES HORRIBLY WRONG"...HAHAHAHAH..(sorry I had to laugh about that myself).

Ol' boy here sent off a beautfiul poem first to get the attention of the beautiful young lady then pulled the "old bait and switch" move. After she read the short poem and replied with a thank you, the second one came and since it was quite long, my friend chose to be polite by replying with a "thank you!" without actually reading it--- to let the dude know she got it. After receiving an additional message upon returning to her page she was asked if she dates. Now let's keep it real, we all have polite tendecies. But dude takes online courting to a whole new level.

let's take a peek shall we............

I lean forward taking your face
between my hands
slowly, passionately make love to your mouth, kissing and biting your lips,
sucking your tongue deeply.
I take you by the hand and
lead you to the comfort of the floor
which embraces us closely,
caressing our bodies as we become
entwined.
I smother your face and neck with the wetness of my lips.
Nibbling here......sucking there......
licking my way down, slowly to your
breasts.
I start to dance circles around each growing nipple with my warm tongue,
lingering slightly.......
taking a nipple every so gently
between my teeth
then releasing......
then soothing with kisses.
My mouth starts to make a trail from your nipples to the sweetness of
your navel, where I follow across
your stomach,
over the slight feel of soft hair
to the treasure I seek below.
Warm, pulsating,
moist.......
anticipating what is to come.
My hands gently open the lips of the flower petals.......before me,
I dip my tongue into the nectar....
warm,
sweet,
delicious......
I trace my tongue up,
to temptation,
and massage
gently with my eager tongue.
stopping to suck for the stimulation it brings.
I hear your moans
lghtly, then louder,
I know this is what you want,
then my finger,
from my right hand,
slips, slowly
gently
into the wet pool of passionate juices
that have begun to flow freely,
while I suck and lick the
epitome of your essence above.
I see you throw your head back
and begin to slowly rock
with each gentle insertion
and withdrawal of
my finger......
your moans are louder and the
smell of lust and
sensuality fill the room
until the last thrust of your rocking
and the last moan you scream
silences to mood and stills the
motion.

WTF...dude needs to be writing erotica novels not using them to pique the interest of random women.

I'll be the first to admit that I was like"Dayum son..you doin it like that?"---then reality set in.

Ladies please be aware of internet etiquette and by all means "READ BEFORE YOU REPLY"
What do ya'll think about dude? DOes he have mad game---orrrr is he a whacked out loser with delusions of hooking up with a beautiful woman based on placing imagery in her head enough to get her to succumb to his weak attempt.

Who's up for this challenge? BATTERS UP!!!

SHR---No More Kings

Excellent to post to show your kids.



Enjoy, family!

Schoolhouse Rock--Rufus Xavier Saspirilla

lol..certainly a serious tongue twister for all schoolhouse rockers.



I surely do appreciate pronouns.

Enjoy!

A moment of silence

I'd like to just take a moment to pray for the family and friends of the victims of this shooting.

I pray God's peace be with them all in their time of bereavement.






God Bless you all, my family of bloggers/readers!

Cheating..Part II

Ok, ya'll. Now that we established that cheating in relationships is held to a higher degree of punishment based on the marital status, let's dig in a little bit deeper.

In the part I segment, I spoke of men/women cheating and I believe we all learned some pretty interesting persepctives about how that situation could be dealt with. But, let's take the physical out of the equation. Let's focus purely on the emotional and mental.

Lend this to you your imagination:

You're in a relationship---not yet married--maybe even co habitating and there is an absence of something in the relationship that you have expressed to your mate that is unsatisfying to you. Try as you might, he/she just won't accomodate your desires. In your frustration, you let off a little steam with a co worker that has availed themself as a friend in the time of trouble, to lend an ear. You always had heard that the best source of information about the other sex is a friend of the other sex. So you ask him/her a hypothetical question because either you feel safe with them or you think they will be honest with you. Or perhaps your biggest issue with your mate is...they don't listen to you anyway. Biggg problem for most of my peeps relationship and marital concerns. So now you expose a deep secret to a person that will listen. A desire or maybe even fetish that has gone on unexplored with your mate. The friend listens, doesn't judge you and provides sound advice. It doesn't matter what it is. If they listened to you and that was your problem with your mate, then a new object of affection emerges from the disclosure. In all actuality a new relationship is birthed in that moment.

Several debates have arisen over cheating in the mind. Biblical teachings say that lusting in the mind is a sin just as with the body. So here is where the debate gets a little fuzzy. If you have a friend and that individual takes up time of yours in a non sexual environment. ie: shared lunchtime, regular casual conversations, a confidante, or a crush. Do you think you are cheating? If you spent a dime on that person, knowing that you would have sex with them, but you haven't...are you cheating? If you speak to that person past daytime hours and that individual is the last engaging conversation that you have before you go to bed and you get the warm fuzzies about them...are you cheating. If you just lust after them, can't do the do because they are hooked up...but if they would let you...you would do the do---are you cheating?

Cheating is in the mind is just as horrific as in the body. A comment in the part I segment forced this variation into the spotlight. Men cheat in the body! There is no doubt about it. And yes, sometimes in the mind. However, cheating in the mind is more of a passing thought like"yeah, i would love to f**k her". For the most part, if we don't think we could actually do it, it becomes a turn off and we may label the woman as a tease, a lesbian or frankly just call her a "bit*h to rationalize it in our minds why we can't "hit it". Purely for ego purposes, it may be wrong but thats just how it is. Now women cheat in the body as well, though apparently not as much as men. BUT..women cheat in the mind far more than men do. Women create relationships with other men, giving of the intimacies in conversation and sexual thoughts because they are the more romantic of the sexes.

Let's kick this around the campfire!

Ladies, did you really think that just because Johnny didn't hit it--that you weren't cheating? Did you really believe that going to sleep and pondering the thoughts of how another man made you feel during the day or in the last conversation wasn't cheating? Didn't you know thinking of someone else during intimacy with your mate was cheating? Did you know that imagining scenarios was cheating? Also--didn't you know that opening up too much to a bisexual or gay woman helps ease you into that lifestyle too?

I put men on blast in my blogs alot. Now women ya'll gots to keep it real and realize that everyone is a cheater at some point.

Who's up for the challenge in this "friendly debate"?

Pot Luck Friday, Part III

Dis shole duz look good!



I think that I'll try this again based on the great response from last week. I am excited to present once again POT LUCK FRIDAY..

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right. An open forum or a wish list if you will. For example, Don Imus or maybe the Duke Lacrosse team situation.

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate. FRIENDLY DEBATE!!!

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of every single question, we take the comment that is posted right before you, answer their comment question,then post your own question for the next person. We can discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

So without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 3?

I just met you today---but I'm madly in love with you...proof.

I just rec'd this email this morning less than 2 minutes ago. How funny is this? They are just relentless in their quest.

Dear Beloved In Christ,

AM Lady Grace Jacobs from Benin republic? I was married to sir Roy
Jacobs.
The CEO Veekrol Link Benin Sarl, a seasoned contractor in West African
Region. Before he died in the year 2004. We were married for eleven
Years
without a child. He died after a brief illness. After his death I
decided
not to Re-marry or get a child outside my matrimonial home. When my
late
husband was alive, he deposited the sum of $4.3Million(four million
three
hundred thousand united states dollars).

My Doctor told me that I would not last for the next three months due
to
cancer problem. Having known my condition I decided to donate these
funds to
better the lives of the less privileged. I need honest and trust Worthy
individual that will utilize this money in accordance with my
instruction. I
want the funds to be used in funding religious organizations,
orphanages and
less privileged propagating the word of God. I took this decision
because I
don't have any child that will inherit this money and my husband
relatives
are very unkind to me and I Don’t want my husband’s hard earned
money to be misused. I am not afraid of death hence I know where I am
going.
I know that I am going to be in the bosom of the Lord.

Exodus 14 VS 14 says that the lord will fight my course and I shall
hold my
peace. I speak French and little English in case you want a telephone
communication in this regard. As soon as I receive your reply I shall
give
you the contact of the Bank, And my companies in Benin For legitimacy,
I
will also issue you a letter of authority that will empower you as the
original beneficiary of this fund. I want you to always pray for me,
any
delay in your reply will give me room in sourcing for another
individual for
this same purpose. Thanks,

Yours sincerely,
Lady Grace Jacobs


Now..I'm pissed because this person is trying to pull off this scam in God's name. How whack is that?

adverbs

I can't help myself! I had to post this one too!

Since, I've been writing alot more and I don't have lots of formal training in the literary arts, School house rock videos have been helping me along.

Other than the fact that I just love watching TV from when I was a kid...a few years ago...I have gotten feedback from some of my non commenting readers that they share the videos with their kids.

I wouldn't want to disappoint the kids, so here's another great classic..courtesy of youtube!




Enjoy!

3 is the magic number

That's right family. It's SHR Thursday!




Enjoy!

We needed something to bring down the animosity from Cheating..Part I

Cheating..Part I

I recently happened across an epsiode of Cheaters and almost passed out from laughing so much. I was on the youtube search late last night, but I couldn't find it. It was the most hilarious thing I had ever seen.

A woman---yes I said it, was guilty of cheating on her husband to be with not 1 but 2 women. She was having a threesome with two other women dressed in construction worker clothes while she was tied up. Some super freaky sh*t to say the least.

The dude she was with hardly understood the world of bondage and was more than slightly repulsed. Unfortunately I was drawn to it like a moth to a flame. I couldn't turn away because it was that interesting.

Now I know why I couldnt turn towards the light(away from the b.s.) and why episodes like that are so well populated with ratings. It is simply because we enjoy the idea of someone getting caught. WHY? Why would our society support a show that highlights the exploits of affairs and infidelities? I'll tell you why becasue it sells! Just like website that alledgely exposes men that women arent supposed to hook up with, www.dontdatehimgirl.com Enough is enough people. Let's wake up and take a peek at it in the real world--not reality t.v..

Of all the cheating relationships, men tend to be the ones that catch the most flack. I don't condone cheating. Let's get that straight, first. I just get sick and tired of hearing how men are the evil incarnate entity that drives women to either

a. be with another woman
or
b. revert into a shell of her former self

Let me tell the ladies a tad bit of info to help you out. Men cheat because of several reasons. I'll just name a few to kick around the campfire for discussion today.

1. His woman allows him to because she's doing the same
2. His woman would rather have a bad man, than no man
3. He was programmed to have sex early and often and hasn't found one woman to "satisfy him" completely
4. His woman doesn't listen to him when he tells her he wants to break up(she holds on, thinking she can fix it)
5. He's immature
6. He uses the cop out of being accused so much unjustly that he decides to cheat
7. His woman tells him no too often
8. Other women will do what his woman won't do
9. Women target men in relationships to hook up with just to be wicked towards other women

We can stop there. The reality is that both men and women cheat for one single reason. BECAUSE THEY WANT TO! Excuses are only needed because our society tries to glorify the relationship woes and make mockeries of them.

I know that most of my readers are women but I leave you with this question. If your man/husband cheated on you...and he came up with a good enough excuse as to why---would you leave or would you stay? Keep it real! An honest answer goes a long way. I have seen women say that they would rather be by themselves than with a cheating man. Then see that woman with the same guy(married no less) ater reconciling. Would you redefine the relationship or end it all together?

For the fellas I leave this note. Don't cheat! Be upfront about the intentions. In this age, she just might go for it...If you only ask. We don't have to lie to kick it. She may just want to have sex with you and pull the "Boomerang" move

Who is up for this challenge

I just met you today, but I'm madly in love with you!

This post is particularly funny to me. My surfing the web,hooking up on myspace, online dating sites, and answering various surveys has me marked as a sucker or something. I must have the cyber stamp "try him" right on my forehead. I know I'm not the only one that fell for the trick, but I didn't get got. Almost did though.

Let's kick this around the campfire.

I doubt that I am the only one that was on a site and all of a sudden some gorgeous woman/man send you a long email saying that they are a student in the US and had to return to Africa. Since this is my blog, I'll stick with the women. The email would then go on to tell you that she is the best thing since sliced bread and that she wants to get married and make a family with you(the fella). "oh my God, you're the man of my dreams..I just like for to be marry" just fuggin up the grammar. I mean bad a$$ pics where you would be like damn she chose me. Fuggin super model types like my girl, Tyra.



So then, after the shock of being contacted by some beautiful image, the next line comes in. "I would very much love to come be with you to marry and love you for the rest of our lives making you happy in every way possible and giving you all the children that you ever wanted." Again a long story that is sure to include the "L" word about 5 times..LOL! A number of different tasks are asked of you to do.

1. Please send money to me in Nigeria, Ghana, or some other country so that I can get a ticket to come back to the states(of course to be with you)

2. I am doing business with clients and the government won't allow for me to accept the money orders that they are going to pay with, so can you cash the money orders..take 10% for your commision and send the rest to me western union.

3. I am trying to close on a house and I sent them too much money, can you cash the money orders/travelers checks for the down payment and send me back the difference minus your commision.

4. I am the attorney that is looking for the long lost relative of my extremely ungodly rich/dying client in bed diagnosed with breast cancer, H I V, or in a coma and their last request was to find their only family in the states..or find a charitable institution to give money to.

5. I am about to be put out of my hotel and my manager is giving me less than 2 days to come up with some money. If I don't have it, I will not have anywhere to go.

There are so many it's not even funny anymore. The other thing is Russian women targeting white men or black men that like white women. I just stopped a guy in my office from sending out $500 for plane ticket cause his a$$ is so desperate that he believed(as she provided to him a flight number and itinerary)everything she said. The ruse is top notch indeed.

BUT!!! MY FRIENDS, I am here to tell you that what you are really talking to is...(drumroll please)...........DUDES!!!


These dudes are so crafty as they sit around in a "Boiler Room" environment with the laptops flowing sending out hundreds of emails to love starved suckers daily cause like they always said "there's a sucker born every minute". Now like I said earlier, I was not the victim of the trickery, but I did receive 5K in money orders to laugh about one time. I just didn't cash them.

I wonder if anyone else has been caught or almost caught up in this trap. Is there anyone that will accept this challenge of their story or someone that they know?

Who's up for the challenge?

Love at first "BYTE".

In a recent conversation with a pal of mine, I had a moment to ponder just how common the whole online dating trend was sweeping the nation. I certainly couldn't knock the idea. I met some very cool people off the net that I hold in high esteem. With the sites that specifically zero in on dating, requiring credit card numbers and automatic billing cycles, was it really that popular? The answer was a resounding yes. They hit my credit card one time because I forget to unsubscribe. LOL!!

More than half of the people that I come in contact with have thought of, tried or is currently subscribed to a service. Keep in mind that the online dating world does not operate in real time speed. The online world of dating can have complete strangers professing love in days or weeks. Remarkably, dwarfing the time it normally takes to even go out on 2 or 3 dates utilizing the traditional dating methods. Proving just how important it is to communicate so much without the interfernce of physical temptations.

Monday's topic of the day, since we like to do relationships so often here.

Do you believe that online dating would be healthy or harmful in weeding out a romantic interest? Or, is online dating a means to get to the good part without having to wati too long to get there?

How willing are you to be bitten by the online love bug? Who is up for this challenge?

Pot Luck Friday pt. 2

Dis shole duz look good!



I think that I'll try this again. I am still going to make Friday's POT LUCK FRIDAY..

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right now on a Monday post topic. An open forum or a wish list if you will.

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate. FRIENDLY DEBATE!!!

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of a single question, we take it as a group and discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

SO without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 2?

School House Rock-"I Got 6"

oh yeahhhh...I liked it alot, except the symbolism made that this black character into a pimp type..

However; it is the coolest, hip music of all the school house rock videos!

enjoy!



School House Rock Thursday!!!!!

School House Rock- "Naughty number 9"

ooooh...I found this one...

Capcity...can you tell me the voice in this video as well?

I may just put this on repeat just to hear the singer!



Enjoy and don't forget to show these to your kids!

School House Rock-"Tale of Mr. Morton"

Outstanding for the kids!

A must-see for any and all!



Enjoy ya'lls!!

DON"T ASK!...SAVE YOURSELF!!!

Today is a great day! The Lord allowed for me to wake up! I have more than a reasonable portion of health and strength! All is pretty cool in the land of "DCville"! If I were to have a gripe it would only be with myself!

Let's kick this around the campfire!

Over the past several months, if you've been coming around this blog, you would know that I have been doing lots of introspective thinking and publicizing it on my posts. Nothing wrong with that, right???...WRONG!!!

Whilst I was on this quest for knowledge, I evolved it to a grander scale of seeking information. I learned the hard way! There is a reason why we aren't meant to know everything! There are some things that "NEED" to be in the dark!! These self inflicted wounds that I'm licking today were acquired due to opening of Pandora's Box.

We have all heard it before...catchy little phrases about looking for trouble!!! I come to tell ya...IT"S ALL TRUE!!!

Stay in the dark.....Turn away from the light!!!!!! LOL!!!!

I'm going to give you a few don't ask questions for your own safety!

1. Why did he/she cheat on me?
2. When did he/she stop loving me?
3. Is there another man/woman that you're currently seeing?(once broken up)
4. Did you ever love me?
5. Was I the best that lover you've ever been with?

What are some additional "don't ask" questions that you can pass along to some other fellow readers?

Who is up for this challenge?

Gilbert Arenas...my other hero, Zero!

Gilbert Arenas is one of my fave NBA Ballers!

Tribute to one of my fave players to the tune of a school house rock song!



If you like him or basketball, you should enjoy it immensely!

I know I did!!

Today, I eat Crow!

Ok, this is short and sweet! Today I eat crow! My Ohio State University team lost last night to the Florida Gators. I put CA Dove, Rich in the Stl,any other gator fan and LO on blast for the last several days!

My team came up short! Florida beats us 2x in the same year for the NCAA championship game. I thought it was a fluke in football, but apparently the gator teams were pretty hungry this year.

Congrats to the Florida Gators.....*sniffling*

Enjoy your 365 days of fame!!...LOL

Tuesday's Headlines: OSU wins....National Champs!!

As you may well know from the bombardment of media coverage on the NCAA March Madness, the Championship game will be tonight! Lolita, Rich, CA Dove, and any other Gator"Chump" music playing fans...please enjoy!

This one's for you!!

Just in case there was any doubt as to what team I know will win tonight, Let me give you a quick clue!



Please buckle your seatbelts, UF fans, it's going to be a bumpy ride from here on out! But..oh wait..LOLITA FILES.."YOU WANNA PLAY ROUGH?.....Say hello to MY LIL FRIEND"!!!!!!!




Don't be mad, you are just going out in a blaze of glory! Scarface would be proud of you gator fans!!

GO BUCKS!!