Friday, July 20, 2007

Pot Luck Friday...part XVI

Dis shole duz look good!

This forum is officially a smash hit. I am excited to present once again POT LUCK FRIDAY.

What I would like to do is get some feed back from some non blogging readers or some bloggers that don't have the time to blog right now. An open forum, if you will. For example, the BET Awards, folks killing their family or how Eddie Murphy indeed was that baby pappy(lol..I loved the movie "life").

There is no topic off limits! I know that relationship posts are common but be more specific. What element of the relationships? Finding one, keeping one, how to get out of one..all are up for discussion and friendly debate.

I am an information junkie! Garbage in--garbage out! But, I still like to process information. So, I'd like to try to start a day where the readers are in control of every single question, we take the comment that is posted right before you, answer their comment question, then post your own question for the next person. We can discuss it in a civil manner. If it goes well, then it could be really fun. I must exercise more moderation on the personal topics comments. I got a few emails from some participants and I must agree that some of the comments were hurtful and should be handled off line...privately. Let's have fun and keep it clean...please---thank you.

Have a fantastic weekend and let's come up with some great questions to kick around the campfire!

So without further delay.....who is up for the challenge, part 16?


KIKI said...

Well...Good's 9am...where is everybody? (that's not my question)

New car purchase is in my future...sporty covertible (diggin the Pontiac solctice & Saturn roadster) or sleek SUV (GMC acadia & Pontiac torrent)?

T.C. said...

being an SUV owner, i will definitely say go for the SUV but just make sure you do ALL of your research before hand...

my topic would be, how do you remain supportive of a dear friend, that is like family, when they continue to be completely negative what seems like ALL the time, so much so that its becoming draning on YOU, and YOU already are of the mindset and belief that you do NOT allow someone to take your do you remain a good friend (nuturer) and not lose YOU?

The Diva's Thoughts said...

I want a bigger house.

dc_speaks said...

hey ya'll...

@t.c.: great question. I suppose that if you being to feel as though you care more than your friend does...then you are starting to lose yourself in the situation...not "you" but in that friends life.

it's tough to maintain the boundary, but everyones threshold is different. be careful and good luck with that.

Q: camping trip or boating trip?

DurtyMo said...

@KiKi, I'm sooooo digging that Saturn Soltice!!! SUV's are played! LOL sorry TC.

@TC You gotta set some boundaries and with that know that some feelings may get hurt but at least they won't be yours!

@DIVA what's stoppin u?

@DC CAMPING!!! I'm scared of water *sigh*

My Q: If you were in a long distance relationship say for two years, would you get engaged?

T.C. said...

@all-i definitely set the boundariers, but like when its your BF and you want to be there, its hard, but here lately i'll say what i have to say and get off the phone, like sitting in silence is a no, and letting MY mood change because of the other person's issues is a no no...but maybe i need to reetablish the boundaries, make them clearer

MzCoko said...

@ durtymo.. I would not get engaged... because i have been in a few long distance relationships and it was wonderful when we were apart but when we were finally in the same place i couldn't do it... and another relationship i was in... when we were together it was wonderful but when we were apart it was terrible... so unless that is the way you all plan to live your life forever... i wouldn't do it

My Q: should you break it off now with someone that you love because you know it's not going to work in the future?

field negro said...

Yo dc, every time I see your "pot luck"Friday theme I get hungry!

But I love it!

One day I might even have something to contribute. (Just can't stop drooling over that food :)


Blu Jewel said...

my question is, "why is the negative image of blacks being so highly accepted by blacks?"

question based on the BET show Hot Ghetto Mess

~Sexy TX Gyrl~ said...

Hi DC...I'm here to thank you for visiting my blog.

@ Blu Jewel...*smh* I've been trying to answer that question for a very long time...still stumped.

KIKI said...

Ummmmm.....Hellllooooo...anybody home?

dc_speaks said...

lol...yeah someone is home.


Shai said...

Mr. *tapping my foot* what's going on? I have been waiting for a post to read. LOL.

So...Wise...Sista said...

LOVE this idea. Too bad it didnt.quite.flow. Good questions too! :)